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My boyfriend's best friend friend hits on me when hes drunk.. Should I tell my boyfriend?

So in the beginning of my relationship with my bf while we where all at a party, my bfs really close friend Dustin started hitting on me, saying I could be his gf. I told my bf about it and he said it was "the hoe test" and that Dustin didnt mean what he was saying, plus he was drunk at the time. But now its been a year since my bf and I got together and Dustins pretty much like my best friend, Except things have gone from friendly hugging, innocent kisses on the cheek, calling me beautiful, to uncomfortable things like saying he'd raise my kid if my bf died, and eventually they led up to him feeling me up one night and trying to kiss me in front of my bf (who didn't notice). As far as I can tell Dustin is always drunk whenever he hits on me or does something that seems uncomfortable to me.. So idk if I should tell my bf, ignore it, or if my bf would hate me if I did tell him..

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    tell your BF. If he does not stand up for you, he thinks more of him than you.

  • 4 years ago

    Sock him good the next time he "feels you up" and deal with it clearly and memorably on the spot at the time. Tell your boyfriend if you want to but do not ever allow yourself to play the "wait till daddy comes home" sort of game. Handle yourself! Got an issue? Deal with it!

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    No, it isn't a "hoe test"; it's a guy who can't keep his hands to himself and will hit on any women, whether or not she has a boyfriend already. You need to be very clear to him - repeatedly - that you are not interested in him, that you don't want his kid, that he needs to stop harrassing you.

  • 4 years ago

    tell your boyfriend

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  • 4 years ago

    Talk to Dustin about it. If it continues, you should tell your boyfriend you feel uncomfortable about it.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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