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my retard of dad just slapped me across the face infront of my mum, brother, special needs sister and au pair. He has slapped me before if I did something bad but now I say one thing and he goes ahead and slaps me. He has threatened to bash my mums head in before and stuff. But I will say my mum goes a bit ott with name calling when she fights with anyone. He sent my godmother which he has known for 14th years nasty messages telling her never to come to my house again. I literally just said 'it was a lot quieter when you weren't here' and he goes ahead and slaps. At this point I'm prone to insults, slaps but for some reason this f'cking angered me. Please tell me your opinion on this. Thank you x

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  • 4 years ago
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    This is called abuse. You could report this to your school counselor. However, you must realize you could be put in a foster home about this, so you need to do some thinking.One thing TO do is not become an abusive person yourself, meaning do not turn around and beat someone else up just because you have been beaten up. But it is up to your mom to make a tough choice -- do you stay and suffer the abuse or do you kick your father out and suffer a lack of money to keep you alive? I think you need to talk things over with your mom about "ways and means", meaning money and survival for your family without your father paying the bills, or do you save your own money and move out into your own flat when you turn 18 and move in your siblings with you. Can you move in with a relative, perhaps? Can you and special needs sibling be removed to a different relative's home while your mom and dad go through therapy? Do some thinking and working out solutions, and when you think you have the best solution, then tell the counselor and get the process started. But this is definitely abuse and needs to be addressed for your safety and your family's safety. I wish you luck in figuring out which decision is best and that you can get out to a safe place.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    this is called abuse... you could report this to your school counselor... however, you must realize you could be put in a foster home about this, so you need to do some thinking...one thing to do is not become an abusive person yourself, meaning do not turn around and beat someone else up just 'cause you have been beaten up... but it is up to your mom to make a tough choice -- do you stay and suffer the abuse or do you kick your father out and suffer a lack of money to keep you alive? i think you need to talk things over with your mom about "ways and means", meaning money and survival for your family without your father paying the bills, or do you save your own money and move out into your own flat when you turn 18 and move in your siblings with you... can you move in with a relative, perhaps? can you and special needs sibling be removed to a different relative's home while your mom and dad go through therapy? do some thinking and working out solutions, and when you think you have the proper solution, then tell the counselor and get the process started... but this is definitely abuse and needs to be addressed for your safety and your family's safety... i wish you luck in figuring out which decision is proper and that you can get out to a safe place...

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    suck him dry, probably just sugarually frustrated...

  • 4 years ago

    you shouldnt have told him that, maybe you should apologize and then he'll stop slapping you

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    i do not think it is acceptable any way you look at it. There are people you can talk to about this, try a relative that you can trust? if you are still in education if you report it to a teacher they may be able to offer you support and help to make the situation better. Hope everything works out fine. x

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Learn when to shut up and spare yourself the slaps.

  • 4 years ago

    He is a smelly poo head and needs to khs

  • Karen
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Call the police.

  • 4 years ago

    Go tell the police. What you describe is domestic violence.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Call the cops.

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