How to ask out a girl via text message? I rarely see her, but we text a lot?

Haha my boyfriend asked me out through text because that's all we would be doing before we started going out.

He basically just asked me, "Will you go out with me, _____?" over text.

I felt a bit awkward and weird since it was over text at first, but to this day I don't think much of it because I'm happy with him :)

It doesn't matter, ask whatever you would like. Be straightforward, be interesting...

Not all girls are like me though! Personally I'm shy so if he were to ask me in person I would have been all shy about it. Other girls aren't, so she may feel iffy if you ask her out over text. You can't go wrong with asking in person. It does sound cuter now that I think of it.

Ask to hang out

DONT DO IT OVER TEXT! Just ask them in person it is a lot more romantic and it will show her that you are for real and you can also tell her emotions when you ask her!

Suggest you meet up for a coffee or something. Say you'll be at the mall (or wherever) on Saturday morning and is she likely to be going? If yes, say you'll meet her at ....(place & time). Take the lead, although if she can only be there at a different time, go with that.

To be liked, generally, it helps to be more interestED than interestING. Listening is good for making friends: ask people questions about themselves and their opinions and listen to them without interruption, except for little comments that demonstrate that you're REALLY listening. It shows you are taking them seriously, as in respect and acceptance. Don't sit there thinking about what you will say, because that shows more interest in yourself than them. Little pauses demonstrate that you are thinking about what they have said anyway. You can ask them how they felt about what they have just told you, or other specific questions to show you have been listening and taking them seriously. Be open minded and try not to disagree with people. For example, if they like a band you hate, ask what it is they like about them, best track, etc. (avoid the word, “why” as it can sound challenging). You can always say you don't listen to them much but you will now or something. Asking for advice is also good. Genuinely, of course, & don't overdo it. Ditto information – we feel pleased to tell someone something interesting they did not know, such as what’s on in town, latest sports score, etc., so by showing interest in their opinion, knowledge, etc. you’ll get some good feelings from them. Smiling is a good sign of acceptance. A lot of eye contact can also be good. Remember, if you want to have a friend, you have to BE a friend, and the best way to impress someone is to be impressed by them! One thing you can do is always to ensure you have a straight back: sit, stand and walk tall (hips forward) and take reasonably long, confident strides when you walk: this has the “reverse psychology” effect of helping us to feel more confident. Once we have self respect and a sense of self worth, we tend to find that other people respect us more too. Good Luck!

"Hey, I really like talking to you, it makes me really happy. I was wondering.....would you like to be my girlfriend? :D"