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Boyfriend doesn't invite me to 'events' ?
We've had a rocky relationship for about 2 1/2 years now. Problems always centered around alcohol and he can be a mean drunk, and when he had to do testing weekly after a DUI, I thought it would be over. One time, I made a scene that he had been drinking, but since then I've decided that he's his own person and I'm not going to make rules for him.
So now instead of not drinking, he goes out but doesn't invite me out. Actually he hasn't invited me to his 10 year reunion, a wedding, and a baseball game with friends. When I asked him about it, he said he didn't think I'd be interested, but I can't shake the feeling that he thinks I'm a buzzkill (which I understand) but I feel like not inviting me is not solving the issue. Its eating at me a lot. What do I do?
3 Answers
- MinLv 44 years agoFavorite Answer
He doesnt want to quit and he doesnt want you to cause a scene so of course the resolve would be not inviting you. Would you be okay without him drinking if you were to go with him? Yes? Then go and not cause a scene. If not why wait around and be upset. Go find someone else.
- Anonymous4 years ago
You could work on your atrocious self-esteem - you blame yourself (calling yourself a buzzkill when it's his responsibility he's got a drinking problem and trying to hide it from you rather than tackling the issue), when you should leave the alcoholic for someone who treats you better and who is willing to take responsibility for themselves.
