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So clearly disappointment to dad?

I don't make much friends and don't talk to people at school and I'm happy with my situation. My dad is disappointed because I don't play sports although I have good form and I prefer small amount of friends. He can be rude to my sisters for being in band and is racist too and it makes me mad so I argue and he gets infuriated. Anyways I'm definitely a disappointment and he shows it well. What do I do?

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  • 4 years ago
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    Being a parent is supposed to be about unconditional love. A child should never feel like he/she has to "earn" his/her parents' love and approval. It should be automatic.

    My advice to you is to not change who you are to make someone else happy. People who spend their lives trying to make everyone else happy usually wind up realizing that the only person not happy is themselves. You should live life the best way you know how and let the rest take care of itself. Best wishes!

  • 4 years ago

    not much you can do unless hes being abusive and then you can talk to someone in cps about it

  • 4 years ago

    Welp, some old people r just like that...Just grow up and move out and find a wife that loves all ur good qualities.

  • 4 years ago

    If your dad isn't happy of what you are then **** him. But maybe you aren't a disappointment. I would just wait it out

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