Would you date someone who?

Okay so here's the deal my boyfriend's a little older than me and here's a few things that I'm concerned about

He's really popular on Facebook

He's unemployed

He's attached to his dog like it's his girlfriend and said the other day he would choose a dog over me

He feels like he should have female company in his house and invites females to stay a few nights at his home only having one bed

He mentions renting his spare bedroom to a female

He always uses excuses saying how it's been a long time he was in a relationship and he doesn't know how to take it serious again

He tells other women they're beautiful when I should be the only one he says that not unless it's a family member

He lives 8 hours away not that it's a big deal

My dad was in the hospital today and he was on the phone with another person but didnt talk to me about my dads situation until he got off the phone

My friends tell me that he doesn't care and he's probably using me