How to like a girl I don’t like yet? She’s not attractive to me...as of right now...how can I find myself liking her?

Before reading, please do not say anything negative like, “if you don’t like her then you will never like her so move on!”

That isn’t helping me nor is it answering my questions. I want POSITIVE feedback. Thanks.

So I’m talking to this girl name Ilse and she is really cool to text. She’s 24 and I am 27. I met her on Clover and we have a date on December 2nd to meet up and see how it goes. We both want a relationship and think we both may be compatible with each other. I met her a few weeks ago online and have been texting each other every day since. But the thing is I don’t really find her attractive or at least not yet. She may be a little bit chubby which I don’t like but I can’t tell from the pictures she sent me but she does seem chubby. I’m not necessarily in shape myself but it’s just my preference that I don’t like chubby girls but like I said she seems really cool and I really want a relationship. She’s going to be my very first relationship if everything goes good. So ultimately my question is how can I find myself liking her for who she is and how can I look past the chubbyness?

Also, if you guys tell me your preference of your ideal guy or girl for you. Do you like chubby and why is that your answer? Or do you go strictly off of personality and disregard looks or both? Thanks for taking the time in answering my question positively.