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I got a C on two of my finals and my mom is so mad at me. Its my very first time doing finals and she knows! Do my parents hate me??

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Theres no way to fix it!!! It the end of semester 1 and they choose to punish me instead of help me

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  • 3 years ago
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    Of course thy don't hate you! They may be disappointed that your didn't get A* grades all over the place........

    Is it possible that their own parents were this way in their childhood/adolescence? In a quiet period take them back to their own childhoods and how they felt when treated unkindly by their parents. Do this sincerely with genuine interest - probably best not during an argument. That said, it might perhaps be effective when emotions are high. It is usually better to ask questions than to say things.

    Is it possible that his own father was this way in his childhood/adolescence? In a quiet period take him back to his own childhood and how he felt when treated unkindly by his parents. Do this sincerely with genuine interest - probably best not during an argument. That said, it might perhaps be effective when emotions are high. It is usually better to ask questions than to say things.

    Here is something you might consider. Make your mother this promise: "I pledge that when you are old and vulnerable I'll treat you with exactly as much love and support as you are treating me now". I don't necessarily advocate that, but it might be worth thinking about in certain circumstances........

    I often suggest that people do some voluntary work, perhaps involving animals - even if just a couple of hours a week. It will benefit your community (local or global), and also will help give you a better sense of your own value, meet some great people - and could possibly even lead to a job, perhaps.

    There is a trick to get people we are not getting on with onto our side. Send them lots of light and love. Imagine them in a pool of golden light, happy and loving. Do this quite a lot and with genuine wish to help them. Most people do the opposite, thinking about how they hate them, etc., and this just makes it worse. Everyone responds to love - really they do!

    Good Luck! :o)

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    No, the don't hate you ! They are just a little disappointed in you. They want to see you

    do really well in school and get into a good collage and make something of yourself.

    Just study hard and maybe get your folks involved in your studding with you. They they

    will see that you are doing your best for them.

  • 3 years ago

    they dont hate you or you wouldnt be living with them, they just dont appreciate that a C is a passing grade

  • 3 years ago

    NO

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  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    C is a good grade. Drop out of school and accomplish life and get a job

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