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Friends with benefits help?
im 21 and he's 27, started out as just friends till he kissed me quite soon into the friendship.
We never spoke about what the other was looking for or wanting, all i knew was he was:
non stop messaging me when i went away for 2 weeks,
adamant about picking me up from the airport and ditching his friends from another state to do so.
kissing me on the doorstep when i was leaving
i was hanging out with him and all his mates, he'd be all cute with me infront of them and also infront of strangers
he fixed my car and helped train my horse
plus more
then i brought up valentines day and he said that he had feelings for me but didn't do relationships. i said that's fine, but i didn't want to be sleeping with someone who's sleeping with someone else. he's not though. anyways he said he wasn't down for valentines day.
on valentines day i was working and he brought in a mass bunch of roses, chocolates and a teddy holding a heart. that night at his he lit a candle and slept with me even though he works crazy long hours during the week so we never have sex till the weekend.
it's just weird? that he wants nothing but is so relationshipy too
7 Answers
- geetarman56Lv 73 years ago
He doesn't want to let you have anyone else in your life for a sexual contact I believe. He is trying pretty hard to keep you 'on a string'. I think this is really more than a FWB situation, but until he says he considers it more, there's not much you can do unless you press the question about it to him.
- ?Lv 73 years ago
He likes you and enjoys spending time with you. No offence but you are not the girl he will consider calling a gf you are just for fun. He will leave as soon as he find someone else interested in him.
It is best to say you are not open for sex without relationship and give him couple weeks to think about it. Cut all contants with him he will either commit or leave.
- dr.pepper106Lv 73 years ago
He sure was thrilled and focused on the chase, give it a few weeks and see if there is any change now that chase is over.
- JLv 73 years ago
no not weird at all, it's what is convenient for him and he was clear about that, so no
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- 3 years ago
This is sooo typical of a man who wants a "relationship arrangement" without the actual relationship.
WHat you allow to happen will CONTINUE to happen, so if you don't have a problem with him limiting the emotional availability he gives you, then this is what you get.
Men are such liars when they say "I don't do relationships." It's a safe way for them to keep you tagging along (hoping they'll see what an amazing woman you are and change their minds) and they can do whatever they want - like see other women - without being attached to you.
Decide what you really want - a relationship with someone who is 100% into you - or this...scraps of someone's time until he mans up or finds someone else. You have complete control over this situation and whether you're a part of this mess. Stop it in its tracks!!! Good luck!
- Blue SkyLv 73 years ago
He's confused about the difference between a real relationship and a FWB situation. He says he doesn't want a relationship, but yet that is how he is acting. So you need to set him straight.
