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Girls, please don't sugarcoat it! If you were interested in a guy, would you do this for him? Or are you just being friendly?
This girl I have known for about 6 years. She's best friends with my best friend's fiance. So she's in our friend circle in a way, but she's not a great friend of mine. Meaning it's not like we talk often at all. But she's in my friend's wedding and so am I. I've always really had a thing for her. She has been over-the-top excited for me since I bought a house. Like way more than usual. She even MAILED me a card and signed "Love, (her name)" and a gift card. My friend has said she has been dropping hints for a while and I've been missing them. Girls, would you send a card like that to a guy who wasn't a great friend, maybe you were romantically interested in him?
4 Answers
- Anonymous3 years ago
You want the real answer that nobody is ever going to tell you?
There is no solid "yes" or "no" answer as to whether she likes you, until you actually find out the hard way.
There are only 2 things that you can count on:
1) Your brains
2) Your balls
In regards to #1, you should use your intelligence and common sense to study pickup arts, dating tips, google "how to get girls", "how to know if a girl likes you", etc so you can learn some ideas. Watch girls when they hit on other guys who are obviously attractive, good looking guys... see how they act. It's OBVIOUS if you know what you are looking for.
In regards to #2, you just need to have the f*cking balls to make a move.
Here is how you make a move:
A) get her number. If you don't have it already, ask your guy friend to ask his fiancee for it and if she asks why, say its a secret but that you asked for it
B) as soon as you get the number, TEXT HER ASAP. Do not wait, because chances are, your friends fiancee is IMMEDIATELY going to text her and tell her to expect a text from you, and hint that you might like her back. So IF YOU WAIT MORE THAN 2 HOURS, you are going to look like a nervous loser.
Ideally, text her about 1 hour after you get the number, and just be like "Hey! This is *name*. I know we haven't talked much lately, but would you be down to hang and see a movie with me this weekend?"
If she says "yes", she likes you.
If she says "no", then she doesn't like you.
If she says "Let me think about it"... she's either very shy, or doesn't like you, but either way your best bet is to play hard to get and say "Yeah, take your time" and don't text her again until she shows interest again.
And if she says "let me think about it" but texts you about random bullsh*t later, be like "*HER NAME*.. what are we talking about here" then when she's like "huh? What? lol" be like "haha our date. Is it happening" and if she says no, then let that be the end of it
but chances are, she's 80% likely going to say yes from what you've told me.
but again if you go through life being a p*ussy, your life will be a very lonely one indeed.
Even IF she rejects you (which is unlikely), SO WHAT? Who cares? You arent going to die, dude. She's not going to shoot you in the head. She's not going to file a false rape charge on you. She's not going to tell everyone to avoid you. Its not the end of the f*cking world dude.
Just do it! And the worst that can happen is she says no. IF she says no, then just be cool about it and don't be weird about it, and it'll be fine. If she says point blank no, just be like "haha thats fine, just thought I'd ask. My friends were joking that I should, but yeah, its cool" . See what I mean? Just don't act like you care either way.
MAKE MOVES... but don't seem like you care.
MAKE SH*T HAPPEN... but don't be obsessed about the outcome. just make it happen.
- PhilosophyAddictLv 73 years ago
if she showed no interest in your for 6 years and now shows interest because you bought a house perhaps she is more interested In the house than in you.
- myfavouritelucyLv 73 years ago
Hmm... OK..... 161 almost identical questions over 7 years??? I suspect you're a weirdo. Over 400 useless, pointless, 3 word answers? I suspect you're a weirdo who just posts any old crap answer just to get the points to continue asking your ridiculous questions. I think you're a sad fantasist.
- dripLv 73 years ago
I wouldn’t put too much into the Love she signed on the card.
If you are interested in her, then ask her out. If not give a polite thank you for the house warming gift, and steer clear of her during the wedding festivities.