Should she know?

i would just give her her medical history

There should be some medical information on your husband from a dr. or hospital, even though he's deceased. You owe it to your birth daughter to give her as much information as you can. If she has the same blood type as you and your husband, you will know as well that you gave her up for nothing. If she has a different blood type, then you can figure she's the other man's child. If you knew his name, you also owe it to her to give her the name. You might not like to be reminded of what happened, but it is not the girl's fault that it happened. She is a victim all the way around. If she proves to be the daughter of you and your husband, how do you feel about that?

well, yeah, there is always hope, some get aborted and some love to have magnificent lives with a little hope life is better imo

get her dna tested and find out

You should inform her, if you can, that there is a possibility that she was fathered by someone Other than the rapist. If you have medical info on your late husband, you should make that available to her, along with your own if you haven't already.

Why would you tell a child that the child is a product of rape? Like the child had anything to do with that. If you did not take the pill that they offered you to prevent conception that is your idiot fault! Taking a pill to prevent a pregnancy does not cause guilt that's a total idiotic and I mean really idiotic idea. If you're bitten by a dog that has rabies you take the shot that keeps you from dying from rabies.

If you're injected by a rapist it's the exact same thing as being attacked by a rabid dog! You take the medicine!

Where did you meet the guy who raped you?

That is your payment from God for Iying about your belief in him but secretly worshipping Satan.

l'm stunned that yoυ and your husband were suϲh idiots and now you're aksing totaI strangers on the internet to deϲíde what you shouId do about it.

The more I read that, the less I believe it.