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Should I have to not use scented stuff because my roommate is allergic?
I’ll be honest, I hate her guts, so my judgement isn’t good, I need advice on this. My roommate says she is allergic to scented things and insists I do not use them. No essential oils(I only use for the scent), no air fresheners, no scented soaps. I love this stuff though, and I feel as though I should be allowed to use them in my own room. I already am respecting her needs by waiting till she wakes up to cook(I work at night and therefore am awake at night and sleep in the day). She does not respect my requests to stop name calling and yelling at me. Because of her anger issues, I am uncomfortable around her and have difficulty bringing up anything that bothers me. I feel as though my needs are not respected while I am always respecting hers. I would really appreciate if I was allowed to use essential oils in my own damn room to kill stress.
6 Answers
- Anonymous2 years ago
I could write a million reasons why I will NEVER have a roomie, EVER AGAIN !!! Move out.
- ?Lv 72 years ago
Seems like the scented stuff is just the tip of the iceberg in this relationship. If you're afraid of her you can't keep living there. The only solution is probably for you to move out.
- choko_canyonLv 72 years ago
If she's really allergic or has bad reactions to the scented stuff, then you shouldn't use it in your shared dwelling. Was that your entire question?
- ?Lv 72 years ago
Gee, so you have a room mate, but before the two of you moved in together, you did not discuss this stuff? Your likes and dislikes, pet peeves? And if not, WHY NOT ?
I would never move in with someone before we had a discussion about our pet peeves, finances, and more
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- ???Lv 72 years ago
She calls you names and yells at you? Use as many scented items as you want, and cook all night. Start looking for a new roommate so you can get this POS out of your life.
