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Relationship advice. New relationship and Marriage?

So im in a relationship with my brothers wife s sister for 4 months now and its gone by so fast.

We have actually known each other for 10+ years but both of us have been single for about 3 years now and thought its time we go together and start a family etc we are not getting any younger.

She wants to get married before she completely commits or at least be engaged.

I just want to know if you guys think this is moving way to fast.

I am emotionally attached she is back overseas atm and we are trying to do a long distance relationship after living together for 4 months.

I am wrong to pursue this?

its so fast i can tell if anything is real or not.

thanks

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  • 2 years ago
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    look, some will say of course its too fast and some will say its fine. you just need to take a moment and think about it, get a paper and a pin and write down the reasons you think it's too fast and reasons you feel its fine and whatever makes more sense to you, act on it.

  • 2 years ago

    if you feel its right, go for it. But if not, tell her you want to take things slower. She should understand

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