Does getting laid on the first date exclude that *someone as potential marriage material?

No, sex is a normal activity. Why would you lose interest in people for enjoying a normal activity?

No. Quite the opposite. This is an indication, that she isn't into saying "no" or rationing sex for favors. If we don't have sex on the first date, I usually don't ask her out again. I don't have time for playing kid's dating games, or spending time with women that don't enjoy sex, as much as I do.

Not necessarily. Why would it exclude someone? ? It's just sex for god sake.

Not neccessarily but rather likely

Who wants easy meat?

Nope. There are so many factors involved in being a good partner for marriage and it doesn't include having sex on the first date or even the third.

I realize some people think those who do have sex on the first date are loose, easy, impure, immoral, whatever and that's fine for them. But plenty of other people don't think that way.

My husband and I slept together pretty early on in our relationship. We married less than a year after getting together and have now been going strong for almost a decade.

I got laid at a party (wasn't even a date), and ended up marrying her a year or so later - that was 23 years ago.

I understand the concern of not wanting to marry someone who might have 'loose morals' - but I wouldn't preclude someone just because they don't have hang ups about having sex on a first date.

No.

Sharing core basic values is important for a successful marriage.

If you think it's ok to have sex on the first date, it would be rather hypocritical of you to think he/she is immoral, inferior or disqualified for doing the same thing.

If you think it's wrong to have sex on the first date, then perhaps you shouldn't have sex on the first date. The whole point is to find someone that you're compatible with.