Am I wrong for wanting to explore and move on from my relationship ?

No, you're not wrong. This relationship has gone on for a very long time without ever getting to a point of permanence. So it's definitely time to change things up. Whether that means you negotiate a move to a bigger city or you take a break to figure out of this is really what you want... You're probably going to have to do something because this situation feels stuck in the mud.

So basically you love the guy, but want to live in the city because you're bored and can't think of anything to do. Because of this desire to live in the city you think that the best course of action might be to leave the guy you love and move to the city to find some other guy even if you're dating experience is likely near zero in the real world and you have really no idea if you will find another guy you will like as much as your current boyfriend.

Honestly, you're naive, selfish and dumb.

You are inviting a schit storm on yourself by posting something like that in Gender Studies section. So i moved it to Singles & Dating.

Less biased people overhere.

If you feel stuck you should definately move on. This aint the 50s anymore where you just have to stay with some dude you arent happy with.

Ive jist got to ask though: Is tjere more to it that you arent saying? Have you grown bored with him too?

I only ask because a woman will follow a man almost anywhere if she really likes him? Have you lost feelings?

You love city life not him ...i am sorry but there it is !!!!

You will realize as you grow up what you really want from life and a partner and be prepared to give as well ...all this takes time ....so carry on ....)