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Can me being a virgin (lack of experience) be off putting when it comes to dating?
I'm male 22, talking to a 29 female online it was going really well, we arranged to meet etc, then she messages me saying bascially saying she can't take my virginity, our conversations have been sexual at times and i know she was very caught by surprise when I told i'm a virgin.
This has really knocked my confidence and upset me, a female friend of mine whom i liked has joked that i'm lacking experience, now i genuinely think that my lack of experience is putting people off.
I don't tell people i'm virgin till i really really have to.
5 Answers
- ZLv 52 years agoFavorite Answer
It depends on your reasons for being a virgin. If you are a virgin because you want to have sex but no woman wants to sleep with you, then this can be very off-putting to women. But if you are a virgin because you believe that sex is a spiritual experience that should be shared only with someone you truly care about and you are waiting until you meet a woman you feel that way about, then women will find the fact that you are a virgin very romantic and beautiful. They will respect you for your deepness, honesty, and principles.
And do not worry about experience, it is not practice that makes a man good in bed. There are many men who have slept with many women and are still lousy in bed. A man who is good in bed is one that is able to connect deeply with a woman and respond to her needs. A man who understands a woman knows how to please her.
- Anonymous2 years ago
What is wrong with you? Even if you are proud of being a virgin why would you just going around telling people ? and what do you mean by you don’t tell until you have to? This question just doesn’t make sense there’s this thing called lying everybody does it religious people politicans, babies, dogs.....yes dogs how about you just lie this is kind of common sense no wonder you’re a Virgin
- 2 years ago
Yes it can be because most people now n days see sex as something that can easily be done. But for most of us it isn't that easy so when you try to explain yourself to someone on the other side (meaning already experienced and is weirded out by you being a virgin) they will initially be taken back so I suggest telling her why you've chosen not to have sex and explain it in a way that won't make you look like a weirdo or gay in her eyes..(: just be cool and natural.
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- Anonymous2 years ago
Don't cry over something so pointless. Just live with the fact that you will never have sex, and you will never be in a relationship. That's what I do. Trust me I found out the hardway that it's a complete waste of time and money trying to do what you are currently trying. I know becuase I've tried for over 10 years. No longer try because again, waste of time and money for something that will never happen.