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She wants to get married soon?
I’m 21 and my GF is 27 she’s been throwing a lot hints at me that she wants to get married sometime soon. Thing is I’m entering my final year of college as of right now and she’s already got a new career going for her. We both love each other and the 6 year age gap isn’t a issue for me. However I’m not ready to get married just yet. Maybe within a couple or three years but not now. Any advice on how to handle this. I really want this relationship to work out and honestly can see myself marrying her In the future. We’ve been dating for close two years now she was 25 I was 19 when we started dating. I've been talking to her about this and shes been more accepting of the situation but I can tell shes still kinda impatient about this.
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- PyrusLv 62 years agoFavorite Answer
Tell her that you want the best for her, and tell her that you want to get married to her very badly! But the thing is that you also want to ensure that you can take care of her as you are certain she will take care of you. This is why you want to finish college first and get a stable job after which you will make the required preparations to get married. You will also add that you won't tell her when exactly you'll propose, but you definitely will. After this conversation, interact with her more, whenever you have time, take her out (or at least more than usual). SHOW her how much you love her despite her knowing that you already do, and you'll intrinsically ascertain that you are hooked to her and will never let her go. (I propose that you get married in 2 years. You are very young, sure, but your girlfriend (although also young) is in the orange area especially if she wants to have kids afterwards (which she'd probably would)).
- choko_canyonLv 72 years ago
The way you handle this SHOULD be the same way you handle every issue between the two of you in the future; with her. That means communication between the two of you. That's how it works. I don't mean to be harsh, but you should NEVER ask random strangers on the internet how to handle your personal relationship with your own partner. TALK to your partner. Remember, neither of you is 14 years old anymore. You don't need to be asking the social network how to run your own life.
- JLv 72 years ago
you need to just be straight up with her, don't get married just because she wants to get married.
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- LetoLv 52 years ago
Since you've talked about this, remind her about what you've agreed to. Let her know that while you understand her impatience, it's making you uncomfortable. Keep reassuring her that nothing has changed since you last discussed the topic. Perhaps spend some more time talking about what kind of wedding you'd like to have once you are ready. Keep talking. Keep working together. Both need to exercise a little patience. Good Luck!
