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Girl I like comes to my work. Suggestions?

I work as a service advisor and this one girl comes to my work a few times a year. I have a good rapport with her and talk to her. This girl and her mom always tell me that they love me and if I ever get a new job I need to tell them. I have her on Facebook as a friend but she does not use it much. I've told her different things about I'll help wash your car for free and give me a call. She tells me I'll do that but never exchanged numbers. I also asked for her insurance and registration cards when she was getting her car inspected and she told me I'm not sure what they are. I asked if she needed help and she said yes. So I followed her to her car. Even those most people just get them theirselves. I know a little personal stuff like she will never get married according to her and she likes Buddha statues. Other then talking at work or on Facebook ( does not use much). I never asked her out because to me the timing was never right and did not feel doing it at work was right. I wanted to get closer and possibly get a relationship with her. I think it could work but do not know if she just think of me as the nice men/boy at x job who help me with my car. I was thinking since I have her address from working at my job. I was thinking of sending her flowers with a nice note to it. I do not know if doing that would be considered creepy no matter who it was receiving them? Maybe you have a better suggestions then that. Let me know your thoughts.

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  • 1 year ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't send her flowers. If she didn't give you the address directly, then it's not information for you; that's how she'll look at it and would be creeped out if you sourced the info through your jobs files.

    Life doesn't usually work out like that where there would be a perfect time to ask one out. You should just ask her. I think the fact that you have seen her a few times now, it's a good time to slip her your phone number at the end of the meal. If she calls you, she's interested. If not, she's not interested.

    Right away, I thought she's just trying to be nice and perhaps does love your service at the job you work at but nothing more. But I say, give it a whirl and see if she responds.

    Either or, you'll get your answer.

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    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Like someone? Ask them on a date.

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