Is it weird to make a guy come over to my house on the first date for dinner? I been talking to him online he’s 24 I’m 20?

Not weird at all. But I'd make sure it doesn't really get to be a habit of his to expect a cheap date all the time and not expect to take you out on the town on his expense sometimes.

This kind of invitation usually is expected to include sex and an overnight. Not weird at all, if you know him well enough to give him your address. Actually, kind of optimal! You can combine all the elements of the first three or so dates in one evening and night.

I think it's unwise to make (force) anyone to do anything, particularly on a first date.

Nothing has changed since the other times you've asked this same question.

It's unwise in several ways.

1. You need to know a lot more about people you encounter on-line before you share personal information like where you live, where you work. For now, meet this guy in well lit public places. Don't let him walk you out to your car when you leave and make sure nobody follows you when you leave.

2. The first time you meet someone from on-line, make it a short encounter. Arrange to meet for coffee, meet for ice cream, so that if you two don't hit it off nobody is stuck for HOURS without someone they don't much like. And no matter how much an online someone may seem wonderful, the first 30 seconds of a real life encounter can change your mind about that completely. That person who seems so great online can be repulsive and disgusting in real life. 

It's better to have your first date in public....he could be dangerous

Not wise if this is your first meeting. He could be a serial rapist. Best to meet for coffee first to check him out and his references to make sure he is safe.

Yes it is weird , and unsafe

:)   How about reading the Bible and finding out? There really are 613 Commandments that GOD gave too Moses.  

It may have even been yours or his parents homes they would have first gone too? 

Not just weird bu incredibly dangerous. You don't know this person or what he's capable of. Even if he doesn't turn out to be a serial killer/rapist he could just be a dud that you'd like to be able to walk away from (which won't be possible if he knows where you live). This is why the cardinal rule of using the internet to make initial contact is that the first three dates MUST be conducted in public places. This is just for safety.