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was I wrong for saying how I feel and should I reach out ?

so here’s the deal I am a pisces that met a leo over a month ago we hit it off right away from dates once a week and  talking and texting on the phone every day. he told me I make him so happy and my positive nature is beginning to rub off on him. he had a ex of 9 years that left him for another man so he is still broken up about it im sure. so anyways the main problem with him is that he works to much 16 hours a day and we only go dates on friday nights. when i confronted him about making more  time for me he got mad and said i was trying to change him and that it will always be business before pleasure.my feelings was hurt and i told him i feel he works too much. I also said thats why your ex probably left you because you work too much. he texted back and said if its not broke why fix it and i said what ever it is broke because u dont make enough time for me. He didn’t text back for a day. should i reach out or wait for him to reach out1st ? I dont think its about sex because we will still talk everyday afterwards. I really like him and he said i make him so happy so why the cold shoulder??

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  • steve
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Sounds like your criticism of his life has made him think you're not worth it. So maybe you are going to have make the first move.

    Have you asked him why he works so many hours?

    I once dated a nurse who often worked double shifts and I only got to see her maybe once or twice a week.

    Like you I got frustrated but didn't exchange texts I waited until the next time I saw her. 

    I casually asked why she did double shifts was it because of the job she did and no one else could do it or did she need the money.

    She said both. If she was asked to do a double shift she would never say no because the patients at the hospital needed her care. But also nurses don't get paid what they deserve so the extra money helped pay her rent. 

    Ask to meet up and nicely tell him face to face why you are upset and ask him why he needs to do the long hours. 

    Often it is out of necessity not choice.

  • g
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    He's working, probably doesnt have time or energy for your drama. Confronting him changes nothing, he is who he is. Learn to accept or move on.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Horoscopes aren't real.

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