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Should i let this person go?

I’ve been talking to someone. And im having second thoughts. I just feel my worth is more important than a bs relationship.

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  • Robert
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Go with your gut

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Must one necessarily choose between being in a relationship and being zero? Isn't there some middle ground between "We're in a relationship" and "We have nothing to do with each other"? 

    It's OK to enjoy someones company, to enjoy sharing outings with the someone, without wanting anything more serious. If you like spending time with someone but don't want anything serious, then you keep the get-togethers occasional rather then making them frequent. If you only see each other once a month or so, then there's no mistaking what's going on for a relationship. Don't be awkward about this. As the evening is ending and your date asks "When will I be hearing from you," tell the truth. "It will probably be a few weeks. Maybe sometime next month." (The maybe is important.)If her position is "We see each other often or we don't see each other at all" then that's her position. The possible options areYou go along with her and see her more often despite not liking it.She goes along with you although get-togethers are infrequent, despite not liking it.You see each other on some sort of compromise basis.You two don't see each other. 

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