how do u handle dealing with family baggages , all they do it bother you with their problem day and night and expect u to fixed their issues?

maybe you can move out if youre lucky enough to be over 18

the nice thing about your family ,, you can move out not spend any time with them , let them deal with their problems 

I pretty much did not speak to my family for most of 20 years 

my problem.... I am married and my wife insist on me dealing with her family ... go figure 

life is funny 

Accept them exactly as they are. (This applies to all difficult people, not just family.) It’s tempting to try to help someone you want to care about; you probably will make some efforts to help them. Sometimes it works, but often your efforts will not be rewarded. In fact, trying to fix someone or make their life better may become a huge headache, since the more you do for them, the more they want from you. Accept that they are unable to change, at least at this point in time.