how do i get a girlfriend? Never had one before.?

enroll yourself in college.

Download Tinder and Bumble. Eharmony is for older people. Make an effort to write a detailed profile and include flattering pictures, this is especially important for Bumble since women have to contact you first. Then start swiping and talking to people. Accept that you will be rejected more often than not and learn to shrug it off. If you are sincere and confident, you will find someone willing to give you a chance.

I usually meet women in pubs, clubs, shops, on the street, in parks, at work, through my hobbies or through friends.

I'd just suggest talking to any woman you see that you find attractive.

You'll get rejected 9 times out of 10, but that 1 is all you need.

It's a lot harder with COVID-19, but not impossible. I mean I went to the shop to get some milk last week and I saw a pair of gals walking on the opposite side of the road to me, so I said hi, crossed over the road and had a chat with them about what they're up to and how their day was going. That's all it took to get a number.

I'm also 23. I'm not particularly attractive, I'd give myself a 6/10 and I'm very picky. I've just learned that the more people I meet, the more chances I have of finding someone that I genuinely like. So put yourself out there is all I can say.

To be clear, don't approach women with the direct intention of dating them. You're approaching them because you want to meet them. The dating can come after you've chatted and texted a few times and like each other if you both end up liking each other.

If you're going in there with the immediate intention on getting a girlfriend, you'll come along as disingenuous and you'll start to attract disingenuous women while the women you really want think you're just trying to get in their pants. 

The truth is, you have to let time do its job. You will eventually find a girlfriend, trust me.