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I had an argument with my girlfriend yesterday and it's her birthday today?

do i get her anything?

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  • Anonymous
    8 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yea you have to put in twice as much effort this go round because you messed up. Compensate for it or you risk everything. You either love her or lose her. And when I say love I don’t mean making love to her. That might put her off even more. Not every woman wants sex on her birthday. You have to make her swoon for you because she might be really pissed atm. Show her you still love her, shower her with lavish gifts. Get things that she knows might be out of your price range because she will know you don’t normally splurge that much, and that fact alone will show her you still care very much. Even if she doesn’t like the gifts particularly, you can always give her a gift receipt but that’s beyond the point. She will most likely still cherish it simply because you put that much effort into it. Sometimes people just want to know they’re still adored by you. Most likely she’ll hold onto it just because of how sentimental it is. You went well out of your way to do something special for her. But enough with Yahoo Answers! Get off of here and save your relationship dude. You have some making up to do

    If gifts aren’t enough then you have to speak your piece tell her upright and honestly “I’m scared to lose you, I know these gifts were extreme, but it was my last hope. I need you in my life. And I know this was my only way in hopes you’ll still stay with me”

  • Janet
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    If you want to keep her, you give her a birthday present. If you don't, be prepared to lose her.

    Never hang onto anger ... we get angry when we don't get our way, but we cannot change others. We can only change how WE react inside ourselves. So if you are angry and cannot defuse it talk with a therapist to learn how ... OR just break up with her.

  • Anonymous
    8 months ago

    Yeah, you call her & wish her a happy birthday. Did you have plans? Take her out or give her a gift? Do it. And, say you're sorry.

  • 8 months ago

    Ask yourself why you wouldn't go get her something, and then call her and ask her out on a date for her birthday.  You said she's your girlfriend so treat her like one.

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  • Anonymous
    8 months ago

    yes.. some cut fruit. she will be pleased . trust me. not edible. just legit, a bowl of cut fruit . or transfer it into a cute bowl and put some saran wrap on top. she will love it. trust me C;

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