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Weird Break up. Is she a bad person?
Even though she claimed to love me, my GF ended things with me in Nov 2019 because her family didn't approve of us (diff cultures and crap). It was a 2.5 year relationship.
We had no contact, I was devastated but doing everything to move on as one would.
However, After 2 weeks she reached out to me and we began talking again. Obviously, I couldn't say no. She still claimed to be in love with me and I know I was too. We started to talk again like we used to and it felt nice to have some communication.
In March 2020, She broke all connection again due to her family (as she stated). A month later she reached out again and we began to talk as if nothing happened. Same jokes, same chemistry, same display of romantic and sexual affection. She would face time me and cry caz apparently "she missed me" as she would put it.
It went on like that for some time, In Sept 2020 we were talking on the phone, before ending the call she said I love you, as she did for the last 3 yrs.
Very Next Morning, She told me that she met some1 that she's drawn too, therefore, can't keep touch with me and this is goodbye.
I did not lash out but I did tell her how used I feel for one year. Kept me hooked up with herself and the second she met someone reasonable I was out of the window immediately.
She blocked me from everywhere after that. she would show extreme jealousy and possessive nature if someone displayed there interest in me. I did not date anyone.
Just wanted to know your opinions
Reply to "Teal" : This was not a business deal I entered without thinking, a lot of emotion was involved. I don't think you read my question thoroughly. She made every effort of a GF to make sure I do NOT move on. It's not My fault if she is a manipulative sociopath. Of course I am moving on now like I was every time she left. But This time I hate her, so no self pity is involved. My whole issue with this was, how can one claim to be in love with you like none other and throw you away instatly
4 Answers
- T JLv 76 months agoFavorite Answer
She knew all along there would be a problem, so she played you every time. Now you make sure you block her on everything, even the phone, you do not need more of her abuse of you.
- oldprofLv 76 months ago
All's fair in love and war. Sounds to me like she was continuing to hunt for greener pastures even while you and she were connecting. Best thing I can suggest is to keep your eyes and ears open next time; so that you can pick up on it when your GF starts to go astray.
- GlassLv 76 months ago
She is not responsible for your choice to cling to false hope and settle for less. She had done nothing to indicate that she was willing to stand up to her family and get back together with you. You knew for a fact that she prioritized their approval and was still allowing them to dictate her relationships. You weren't deceived and you weren't used, you chose denial over doing the work to move forward. Now you have another choice to make, wallow in self pity and blame her for your own choices, or move forward and get over her. You aren't helpless, you decide what happens next.
- Anonymous6 months ago
yes its happens. this is not about race. this happens within race too. i think she always liked the other guy. or something like that. but sometimes its also who is more established ( ******** reason in comparison). so this is nothing to do with race if it happens within the race as well. so deal wih this as a bad breakup for all reasons.
that is why im so hurt all the time by the hypocrisy. lot and lot of secrets.
