Do you think I'm the type of guy that shouldn't be in a gaming community?

Whenever I join an Xbox community things do go well most of the time. A lot of the time something does happen and I  get kicked out of the community. There was only one that I was happy I left. I had some problems with one of the members that caused me to get kicked from it. After that now I'm feeling very depressed about losing my friends. I did join a new community and they are nice people. I'm just afraid that something is going to happen and I will be sad again.