What should i do?

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Infedility. Perhaps a lot of people my age. 27 years old. May have parents who have been together for a very long time and well you only hooe the best for them. Which is through ptayer or by just wishing that things could be at peace for a while. But like the saying goes. If things couldn't get any worse. I just found out that my father who has hated me his entire life has finally slipped which led me to the discoverybtoday that he's been talking to another woman in secret. In any one's position i think the ideal thing to do is move out and take my mother with me. But as you may know. Evil inclinayions exist anf my finances have been affected greatly as well as altercations with the old man. So.. To anyone who reads this. What's my best option for these circumstances?

Pearl · Answer

not much you can do but pray

chris n · Answer

Don't get involved by telling your mother what's going on.  That would just hurt her unnecessarily and she may actually be turning a blind eye to something she already knows.  You don't like daddy and would like to do something damaging to him.....ie telling mother about his 'slip'....using mother as a weapon against him.  Not a nice thing to do.  If you don't like the situation you should talk privately and directly to your father about how he's disrespecting your mother.  You can have that row with him in private away from your mother's ears.  If you cannot bear being at home with him then you are more than old enough to move out and live a separate existence.  It's up to your mother what she wants to do.  You'll always have a space for her if she needs to cut and run from your father.  That's all you can do,  Your parents' marriage is THEIR concern - not yours.

Pearl L · Answer

not much you can do but move yourself

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