I have a marriage question ?

You have done that at the wrong time . You would have disturbed her in her sleep or she was about to fall asleep . That would have been ok during the early stages of marriage . Change the approach and select a better time . Avoid taking it as a serious issue . How long you were married ?

Maybe you bore her these days?

     I used to be married to someone like that and after years of trying to please her, I realized she was doing it on purpose. She probably was awake but wanted to put you on the defence so you could be punished. You say she has been hurt in the past but she used to be touchy-feely but has been hurt. Was it by you? She would just as soon be alone. Counselling would help but if she is not ready to improve the relationship and there is not much you can do about it.

     My relationship ended in a divorce, which is what she wanted but for some reason had to get to that point, all the effort was useless. She will always be special in my heart but it has taken a year to get where I am now. I hope I am wrong about your situation but it has a familiar ring.

    One more thing that just occurs to me, my wife's mother couldn't be kind to her father either. Sometimes those things will slither into the next generation and she won't see it or it is just more comfortable because it is what she is used to. Again counseling would bring that out. Good luck Grampa B

Not exactly wrong, but given she has 

a bad history, I guess you will have to 

make absolutely sure she's awake if 

you want to do that in the future. 

i dont see anything wrong with that

I hope she makes it up to you.

You're lucky she didn't rip your d*ck out by the roots.

Maybe something happened to her at night and she gets ptsd from it. You are married, you should know your wife more than people from yahoo answers.