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I had sex once and got an std i'm a broken man?
i turned down sex more times then i can count in college, i always saw something so much as a kiss as sacred, what a fool i as, i made out a lot in college my last year but still no sex by choice, literally had girls asking me, i'm above average looking, and i have self esteem issues, what a combo right? fast forward i'm 24 out of college and a girl is really into me at work, me being the socially awkward person i am i just don't bother and she is hitting on me hard, we get into a relationship for 4 years, she cheats on me.... f**cks this guy and then F***cks me without condoms, i get w.e this guy has, after the heart break period, which i wanted to kill my self on and almost did... it was rough, so fcken rough, i'm finally ready to start dating again, i go on about 12 dates from these dating apps, i stop cause ifeel like i need to work on myself a bit, a month later i see warts on my junk... i got to a dr 2 months after and i have an std... genital warts.... u can't test for it in guys apparently even though i thought i covered this by getting a 10 panel std test done but i guess sh!t can't be figured out still. now i'm infectious to females, i honestly feel like if god exists he put me here to suffer, my closest and only person in the world said people have it worse and she is right but, i still feel like i was delt a more then bad hand.
these answers make me question the point of it all, one is a dumbass saying i should be more carefull when i spent 24 years to choose the right girl to give it all to. then the next is giving me religious nonsense.
4 Answers
- 1 month ago
STD's are relatively easy to treat, including warts. Find a doctor that knows what they're doing.
- ?Lv 51 month ago
You did the right thing to be conservative about sex and treat it as a holy act, which it is. You messed up, but that does make you a bad person. And it certainly doesn't mean you can't ever have sex again. Just get to know the girl well and be honest with her. If she loves you, she should respect both of your sexual needs. Until then, keeping looking for thr right girl, but don't rush it. As the saying goes, good things come to those who wait. This includes sex.
PS There are drugs I believe you can take during sex to avoid spreading the disease to others. I would try to look into that.
Best regards.
Peace and blessings.
Source(s): Wisdom, knowledge, and experience - Hope!Lv 71 month ago
God did not put you here to suffer. He does exist, He's not hiding, He's waiting for you to invite Him into your life.. Our society doesn't listen or care what God has to say.. and look around at the consequences! Not listening has lead to unplanned pregnancies, millions of abortions, STD's, half of marriages ending in divorce, broken homes, kids being raised without a dad etc.. all because we insist on doing things 'our' way.. Don't blame God, for something you did.. God loves you, and He's here to help you, but He won't always stop the consequences of our own wrong actions..
Your life will be different now, but it isn't over - far from it! And I hope you will remember this - a friend of mine married a man with herpes - she knew, but she loved him and so they got married. You can still find someone - many do! There is hope.. but I would be turning to God and asking for His help in finding that person. Join a church, join a bible study.. and get to know God. Don't write off God - give him a chance to show you what He can do in your life.. or not - it is your choice.. Jesus Christ saved me from the self-destructive path I was on. My life has meaning and purpose now. I have peace and joy that I didn't before. I feel loved. I feel whole.. and this all came about when I asked Jesus Christ to forgive me my sins, to come into my life and take control, when I acknowledged Him as my Lord and Savior.. and He can do the same for you.. those who seek Him, find Him - that's a promise He made to us.
