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Lucy asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 month ago

Who's right or just unsuited?

Getting frustrated in my relationship, we have two kids but OH just constantly moans about our kids if they leave mess and always wants to go away without kids. He also wants his dad to stay with us a lot, for weeks at a time. His dad doesn't drive and ends up coming to kids football, classes, shopping, everywhere. I guess I just like my own space with the kids and mess and he wants his dad here in a spotless house. I don't think that's healthy but he thinks I'm the bad one. Is this the end?

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Sounds like maybe the both of you need to recognize that with family comes good and some bad. He wanted kids one assumes so he's going to have to accept that kids can be messy. You wanted him and one assumes you knew he came with a somewhat dependent parent who needs extra tending. But if you both discuss how you're each willing to compromise then I think you'll be okay. 

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    maybe you shouldnt be with him then

  • Audrey
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Sorry, but i see the end in the distance.

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