if i want to marry the daughter of a family who are our business rivals since generations ?

the issue we have here is their dad nearly killed my dad almost four decades ago in a fight,  and since then we've been like eternal foes.

i beat their youngest son up and put him in hospital and also set their warehouse on fire back in 2010.

also at a neutral venue, a friends wedding that both families were invited to - we tried our best to keep it civil but they provoked us and offended my mother and so I lashed out by attempting to smash a bottle of whiskey over their dads brothers head, but missed and hit the wall instead.

next thing i know i saw stars,  and then it was black.  i was punched from the behind, sucker punched and the wedding video clearly shows nothing but a mass brawl ensuing and complete chaos and pandemonium.

given this,�� is it any way possible through marriage we could bring our families together and make peace ?  or is that near impossible given that in our culture we don't give our womenfolk away for wedlock to our rivals and enemies ?