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got high with boyfriend and he dumped me after...?

just yesterday my boyfriend and i were doing perfectly fine. we agreed to buy a cart. it was already opened when we got it, but we still hit it anyway. i don’t smoke much, he smokes a little more than me. i took a long hit off of it and was completely ****** up. he dropped me off at home, then unadded me on everything. i had my friends text him, he said he was freaking out and didn’t know what to do. he said he loves me , but can’t be hurt like that again. he hit it before i did. he didn’t have to hit the cart. so him being “hurt” was on him. i literally felt like i was dying and knew i still wanted to be with him. he said it was happening “too fast” even though he agreed to it. i am lost at this point and don’t know what to do. i’m hoping he’ll come back but i don’t think he will... i think he was extremely paranoid like me. 

Updated 1 day ago:

i know it isn’t cool. i didn’t do it to be cool, i did it to be numb from emotional pain. i know it wasn’t the best thing to do and i’m completely aware. 

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  • 1 day ago
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    Just let it go, give him some space and hopefully he may come back. The last thing you want to do is smother him. This is why couples should seriously leave drugs out of their relationship. I used to smoke with my ex and when I didn’t want to smoke anymore, he thought I wasn’t interested. Me and my new boyfriend don’t smoke and it seems like me and him always have our best interests. Just don’t let him peer pressure you into smoking. Seriously, it’s not cool 

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