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Does unprotected sex with baby dad, finishing in you all the time mean your in a relationship? & he says he doesnt want relationship? ?
So i am sleeping with my baby daddy. We broke up after a long term relationship. He claims he doesnt want a relationship he told me. I am okay with it and prefer something casual. Sex and being able to focus on school my son and my job. But I noticed he does not let me go out with friends and always wants to tie me down with our son. He said that he doesnt want me to meet no one. I told him for my birthday i wanted to go out of town with my cousin and visit and i asked if he could watch the baby he said no im coming and ill watch your son with you out there because he doesnt want me too meet no guys. Then he gets jealouse when i dont want to sleep over with my son. He offers me to leave clothes and items over his house. And gave me a key to his house. He always accusses me of messing around with other people. We have unprotected sex and he cums inside of me. We dont communicate when were apart only about my son and thats it. But the days we have sex and a whole lot of sex. he always ask where ive been, what ive been doing. And i tell him dont worry about where i go we are not together I can do whatever i want just like you can. My question is am i in a relationship and dont even know it?
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- 2 days ago
With all the detail you provided...and depending on where you live...
You might in fact be MARRIED and not even know it. Some states have "common law" marriage and your behavior fits the definition. You have a key to his house, you spend a lot of time together, you have a child together, he doesn't let you date or even meet other guys. Yeah, that's a common law marriage. Meaning, if you did want to date some other guy, you might (legally speaking) have to file for divorce, first.
In fact, there was a case in Canada recently where a guy and a girl were dating, seeing less of each other than (you two do), did not have any kids, she did not have a key to his house, they were never formally married, and never formally engaged...
But she filed for divorce and got half his stuff and alimony, too...
The judge ruled that it was a common law marriage. And they were LESS married than you two are....
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- GypsyfishLv 72 days ago
Well, isn't it nice that he has you exactly where he wants you! What are you- a doormat? He's got all the privileges of being married without any of the responsibilities. And you're going along with this???? You're going to be pregnant again, you know- and then you'll have TWO children to support and care for, and still no husband or partner to help you. Get some birth control pills, for crying out loud- go to your local Planned Parenthood office. And then boot this jerk out so you can meet someone who really wants to build a life with you.
