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To be honest, I don't think it will, but what do y'all think? I'm fine if she says no, but this feeling is strong and I'd be tortured if I never said it. But I feel like the possibility is high that she'll say no. If she says no, I want to keep our friendship, because she's such a close friend to me.

I am a guy like me. She said that because we are so close on an emotional level, we think the same way, we are super good friends. Usually this is a clear indicator that I'm in the friendzone, but I feel like she just doesn't want to make it awkward when she said that. Thoughts? Would it hurt to at least try?

Usually I can tell when I'm in the friendzone, and with this person, I'd even say we started the friendship by friendzoning each other. Upon first meeting each other, I never thought of making a romantic relationship with her (or perhaps, I just didn't imagine it WOULD happen if I tried, so I just quit while I was ahead), rather I just saw that we got along really well. So well in fact, that we call each other "cousins" because we're mad close and are both from Philly. 

However, there have been a bit of changes since we first became friends. First, she had a boyfriend at a certain point, and they ended up breaking up and now she's heartbroken after he slept with some girl. Second, I also was in a relationship that ended a month ago, so currently we're both broken.As for me, I've tried to imagine us being together some time ago, and at first it made me cringe, especially when I thought about how she'd react if she found out I was thinking that. But some time has passed and now the thought doesn't make me cringe. But I wouldn't have let that fact get to my head if it weren't for the fact that lately she's been inviting me to hang out with her alone a lot lately. Like yesterday she invited me to a drive-in movie, there was a time a week ago where we were at this event (again alone) and I gave her my jacket because she was cold, and today we basically spent the day doing homework together, and we've just been so vulnerable together.Is this wishful thinking or am I onto something?

So every other weekend I stay at my dad's house for 3 days until I go back to my mom's house. His place is a small apartment with 2 rooms, a kitchen and a bathroom. My dad doesn't have a lot of money because he's under disability due to his kidney illness and can barely work.

So without money, there's nothing we can do TOGETHER except watch TV and talk sometimes.

So now that you understand my situation, I was wondering if there's ANYWAY for us to spend time together besides watching TV and without spending money (well at the very least, not TOO MUCH money).

I've been on this website over and over, asking for girl advice for this girl that I'm tryna get with. In the descriptions I keep explaining how much I like this girl and that I'm "in love" with her. I've gotten plenty of responses saying "I'm not in love" and to move on.

Apparently since "love" is such a rocket science that only experts know. I've asked a friend if it was normal to fall in love with someone who isn't your boy/girlfriend yet, and they said "yeah, that's normal." If that's the case, WHY ARE PEOPLE TELLING ME THAT I'M NOT IN LOVE. WHAT IS BEING IN LOVE? WHAT IS THIS THAT I FEEL THEN????

P.S. If it's because people think I don't know anything about her, hence why I haven't taken her on date yet, then they're wrong because I know tons about her. We would talk in class about everyday and I learn something new about her each time we'd talk.

So there’s this girl I like and I asked out to the movies this Friday, she said she didn’t have a ride so she couldn’t make it and I was like “Ight, maybe some other time then” and she said okay. Right now, I’m kinda impatient for the next time I see her in class, so should I was thinking about just texting her to say what’s up. If I do that, it’ll be obvious that I like her. Is that okay? Do girls mind when you just text them randomly like that? Or is that just for girlfriends and boyfriends?

P.s. I kno I sound like some middle schooler but I’m actually 18 😂 I just don’t have ANY experience in relationships 😂😂😂