Miss Miely

He is in college class with me and everyone knows he is a womanizer. He asked me to out to his apartment and offered to have a "Relationship" but I turned him down. He knows that I secretly like him but I still said no. So then a few days later he threatened murder to me and made kidnapping jokes. I became afraid because people didn t defend me. Also he says he is going to get me no matter what and I am worried he won t stop. What should I do?

When I was pregnant a few years ago the doctor wanted to do a blood test. I agreed. He asked for my ethnicity and I told him. He came back a few days later with the blood results and marked me down as "Other" for race! What am I? My mom was half Puerto Rican and Polish. My dad was White. My mom said I am also part Italian. Would the blood test tell us this or is he not sure of my race? All of my life I thought I was "White."

I have an anxiety or phobia about driving ever since I was in a car accident last two years ago. I was pregnant at the time and luckily the baby was fine. He is almost two years old now. So anyway I was invited to this class that I really want to go to for work. It will involve a promotion too. However they want me to drive 2 hours there and this is the problem. I don't have a babysitter yet. I don't know if I should postpone the class or not go. I don't want to drive 2 hours with the baby and look for a babysitter for two weeks there. What do I do? Should I go or postpone? I have no one yet to take care of the baby while I am gone because my husband is a truck driver and out for weeks at a time. Any advice?