Jessica

Can a complicated relationship ever be worked out for the better? In my heart we are good together but there are something things that are complicated in our relationship. It's not neccessarly bad- it's just complicated. By that, we aren't fighting and there is no abuse of any kind going on... And the complitication in my opinion doesn't have to be a big a thing as 'he' is making it to be for himself.

Has anyone been in a long relationship where things were great. Love is great, but for whatever reasons the SO wants a break from a relationship because of other crazy things going on in his/her life? They still have love for you but at the moment doesn't feel they can give you what you need and just wants a break.... I am going through that now and we still talk/hang out. There is no one else.

Has anyone gone through this and able to find their way back into the relationship and have a happy ending?

I have read the regulations about fratenization, but it seems like an open question still for me about officers and NCO's in the National Guard... as long as it's not a drill/AT weekend, it's okay to have a dating relationship? I mean... you can not help who you fall in love with...and what if you meet someone and really fall for them, then you learn the both of you are in the military, ones officer and the other is NCO... rules and regulations are confusing....

I have known the most perfect guy ever for more than a year now. Not to long ago we decided to date. I am still a virgin,but I know that it won't be for long. I am nervous and I want to be good at everything. What are some things/techniques I can do to my my guy go 'WOW' =)

I am curently living with the parents because of possible deployment. They are not asking for rent so there isn't any reason to get BAH, but if I had a legal lease with them for BAH can I get into trouble with that?