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Had my first sexual experience at a massage place (spa), didnt enjoy it?
Others who went there, to have a sexual experience with the person I had it with, said that they really enjoyed it.
This was my first ever sexual experience. She was good at it, but I didnt enjoy it. I wasnt nervous. I was quite relaxed. So I dont understand why i didnt enjoy it. We didnt engage in PIV. It was a handjob, and a lot of playing with the boobs and ***. The whole body. No blowjobs either.
But honestly, boobs just felt like a ball of muscle with skin. It was just a little softer than a butt. It felt almost like my manboobs if it were larger and better shaped. She had the perfect boobs though.
She was really good looking, but I didnt feel sexually drawn to her either. The handjob felt only a little better than masturbation.
Touching her body and being touched by her felt only just a little better than touching myself.
Im wondering if sex is just a big hype, because I really didnt even enjoy it. But she was experienced and she was good at it. I know she was good at it, judging from the things she was doing and how she was doing it. A friend of mine really enjoyed her as well.
If I was nervous and unprepared, I'd understand why I didnt enjoy it. But I was prepared and not nervous at all.
Is this what sex actually feels like? Is it just hype? Is sex actually not something that feels great?
5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year agoI feel like I dont care about people in my life?
I dont know if others feel the same way. I mean, I want to help people in my life. But, most of the time, even when someone probably needs my help and I know it, I find the affection a bit awkward and end up not helping as much. Because I end up feeling nervous about being in an awkward situation.
And sometimes, I just dont know how to help them. Do others feel the same? How do I show people that I care?
4 AnswersPsychology2 years agoIm scared of getting caught?
Im scared that if I get into a gay relationship, I will get caught and be arrested. Im from an Islamic country (Maldives). Im scared that I might never even find love. Im scared that I might not be able to move out of this country to find love even, because its so hard and complicated to migrate, and I dont even have enough money. Im scared that I might end up marrying a woman and Im scared that woman might find out.
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What would you do if you were in my shoes? Im not a muslim btw.
5 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender2 years agoAre homoromantic asexual relationships forbidden in Islam?
There is no evidence that people of Lut were romantically attracted to men. They were sexually attracted to men. And they engaged in sexual activities with the same sex. Those sexual activities were forbidden.
So, people who are romantically attracted to people of the same sex, but not sexually attracted to people of the same sex can be in relationships with each other right? They wont be engaging in any sexual activity with each other.
3 AnswersOther - Cultures & Groups2 years agoAm I still a fat person?
So, my height is 70 inches. Thats 5'10" I think.
My weight is 73.5kg (162 pounds)
I know Im not overweight, but am I a "fat" person? I was 86.6kgs before, but now I dropped it. I was definitely fat at 86.6kgs.
I still have a stomach, lovehandles and my manboobs arent fully gone yet, which are the main reasons why I think Im still fat.
5 AnswersDiet & Fitness2 years agoIslam: Is it a sin for a sinner to tell sinners not to sin?
I already know that you are not allowed to tell others not to commit a sin that you also commit. For example, if I drink alcohol, I cant tell others not to drink alcohol.
Here s the verse for that:
“O you who believe! Why do you say that which you do not do?"
"Most hateful it is with Allah that you say that which you do not do”
[as-Saff 61:2-3].
However, is it a sin for a sinner who "doesnt repent" for his sins, to tell others not to commit sins that he himself doesnt commit? For example, is it allowed for someone who fornicates, but doesnt drink alcohol to tell others not to drink alcohol because its a sin?
Im asking this because I feel like sinners like that who do not even repent are not in the place to tell others not to sin "differently". Is there any evidence whether or not a person can do this?
5 AnswersReligion & Spirituality3 years agoI want to practice dance, but I don t know where?
4 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years agoI don't know many basic life skills and I dont know how to learn.?
Im 21 and Im only recently realizing that I dont know how to do many things properly.
For example, I wash dishes only using my barehands and soap. And I use way too much water when doing so. But recently I found that you're supposed to use a sponge to clean the dishes and to apply soap.
I dont know how to choose clothes either. Clothes that fit properly. I just go and take a clothing and if it feels comfortable and if I like the color or design, I just take it. But I just found that just feeling comfortable isnt enough, because it might be too large.
I dont know how to choose cleaning materials either. Like, what should I use to clean a bathroom? I still dont know the proper stuff. I dont know how much I should scrub either.
I dont know how to do laundry. Just found that putting all the clothes in the washing machine with some soap and water isnt enough. I have to wash different clothes differently.
I dont know what good quality fabric is. I dont know how to tell. I also dont know how to tell if a lemon or orange or apple or any other food that I buy from stores is good when they dont have an expiry date written on it. I dont know how to tell if food is too salty or too sweet. I dont know how to cook anything!
I dont know how to take a proper shower. I just apply soap on my body, rub my body with my hands. But i just found that im supposed to use tools to scrub my body.
How to learn?
Cleaning & Laundry3 years agoMy mother and brother are crazy. What should I do?
I am a 21 year old guy, and my mother and brother treats me like a child. They dont see me growing up. They are always totally against me hanging out overnight at friends place or even going on a holiday with friends. They are not okay with me going out too much with friends (according to their dictionary, too much is like, 10 times a month).
The last time, they even called the police because i wasnt coming home. What can I do? They go to all these lengths just to control me like this.
It was really embarrassing one day when they tracked me down. I was with my friends and my phone was out of battery. And then my friends brother called him and said that my family is looking for me. This was when I was 20 years old. I didnt even know how in the world they got my friends brothers number.
How can I handle this? My mother cries a lot and my brother shouts if I go against their will.
The scariest part is that im gay and its illegal here. My mother knows, but she thinks I might be fine, because she prays. She things I will do bad things (have sex) if I go out. And im afraid she might tell my brother im gay. If he finds out he will almost kill me.
What to do??
6 AnswersFamily3 years agoAll I see is sad couples?
Their pictures on Facebook and stuff makes it seem like they re a really good couple, but when you really get to know them, it s like they re always struggling. This is not just about one couple. This is about many couples I know.
Why does this happen? I thought relationships were supposed to bring happiness into your life but it brings hardship.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoWas Miley actually hiding her identity in the past?
Okay, I thought that Hannah Montana was just a character and that everyone actually knew that she was Miley Cyrus. I thought that only the people on the Hannah Montana show didn t know that it was Miley and stuff.
But things I ve seen on the internet makes it seem like no one knew who Miley was when Hannah Montana began.
So, was she actually hiding her identity? When did she reveal it?
3 AnswersCelebrities4 years agoWorking extra time, but not being paid.?
Okay, so one of my main works at office is that I have to make sure all of the expense bills (receipts) have been received from the previous date's end-of-day sales sheet (on which expenses are also recorded).
Today, it was decided that I can go to the 2 shops every night to make sure the bills are there BEFORE the end of day sheets are made.
Now, I don't have an issue with this. I actually like this idea, because it would make my life a lot easier. I wouldn't need to chase after different people during my office time to get the bills.
Today, my friends asked if Im getting paid for this. And I told them Im not. They said I shouldnt do this if Im not getting paid. But honestly, I dont see their point. Im working in my uncle's company btw. And im just going to the shops every night, so that I wont have to do that the next day.
What do you think? Its quite irritating for me that my friends are saying that Im being treated like a puppet and taken advantage of.
3 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment4 years agoHow to come up with content for an LGBT Facebook page (with some politics)?
Please note that I'm from a Muslim country where homosexual acts are illegal and it's not acceptable to be open about it either. Everyone is supposed to be straight.
I want to post things that would make people talk about LGBT issues here and I want to relate it to politics (because, it is a political issue that it's illegal). I want it to be a voice.
1 AnswerLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender4 years agoHow can I find a life partner with all of these conditions?
I m an ex-muslim living in a country where its illegal for any citizen to be non-muslim.
I m something between straight and gay (kinda bisexual), but if anyone finds out, there s a chance I ll get murdered by someone. (Nothing other than heterosexual is accepted). But I m gonna marry a woman. The problem is that I ll be afraid to come out to her, because she might tell someone and it might spread.
I don t want kids. So many people want kids.
I have a small penis (like, 3.5 inches long when fully erect and 4 inches circumference).
So, how can I find a woman who will marry me knowing that I m a non-muslim, that I m not straight, that I don t want kids and that I have a small penis.
Btw, I m neither good-looking, nor have an attractive personality.
1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years agoPeople say I need to dress better, but I don't know anything about fashion?
I'm quite fat and honestly I don't think I'll look good in anything. But I'm gonna go to the gym and get slimmer.
After I get slimmer, I wanna go shopping for new clothes, but I have no idea how to pick good clothes for me? I just take whatever has a nice design and see if it fits. If I feel comfortable in it, then I buy it. I don't give much thought into it.
3 AnswersFashion & Accessories4 years agoWhat s the accounting Dr/Cr transaction if you received a refund for your purchase, but you didn t send back the items?
Let s say that you made a purchase on Aliexpress (you purchased 1 camera for $30). The double entry would be:
Inventory Dr 30
Cash Cr 30
And then after 2 months, you didn t receive the item, but you got a full refund because it s taking too long to be delivered. And 3 days after you get the refund, you get the items as well.
What would be the entry in this case?
2 AnswersOther - Business & Finance4 years agoI don't want kids, but...?
I talked to my friends about having kids in general, and they said that if you don't have kids, then there won't be anyone to take care of you when you're older. They said that family members are gonna be around now, but they won't be around in the future.
Is that true? I think I have a lot of really good reasons why I don't want kids. But I'm wondering if I would regret it.
4 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago