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I just got to college. And I lost my virginity to a guy I'd only known 2 weeks. I got really attached to him but to him I'm just a friend. Somehow my number is now 6 guys. None of them care about me, in fact we're not even on good terms. And it's only been one semester. I had literally no friends in high school because I was so shy, so I guess I'm liking the attention. I have bad self esteem issues. I just find a super thrill in doing anything I know I shouldn't now. Like I smoke weed/drink and have sex now. I'm crazy. How do I fill the void of wanting to cause trouble?

I lost my virginity to this guy I've known for 2 weeks. (We lost it to each other), and he wants to be f**k buddies because he thinks it's pointless to have a girlfriend you don't plan to marry. Any reasons that counter this argument? I think I'm getting emotionally attached. And I think I might want a relationship. Idk through. I know it's messed up, trust me. He's 21, I'm 18. What do you guys think?

How do I deal with this? We were at this carnival for my college, and it was this guy I met earlier on campus. My friends were acting all cool and not wanting to do anything fun like jump through the bouncy castle or get a tie dyed shirt. So I played along because I don't have a lot of friends and I'd rather keep them than be with this guy. But why can't I do both? Idk. I hate playing it cool but I'm trying to fit in this year because it wasn't great for me in high school.

Should I text this guy who ditched me? Or leave it alone.? Ahhhh idk I messed it up.

http://www.rockabilia.com/pink-floyd-domestic-post...

What does the poster mean? How does it relate to the album "The Wall"? What's the story behind it?

You know, like f*** buddy? I wanna tell him that he can call me or whatever if he can't find anyone else online. I met him a few months ago online and we've already sexted, and I don't want him to stop, so I thought I'd ask him to be my fun buddy. He's not looking for anything serious, and I like having a friend who is turned on by me. It's doing wonders for my confidence.

So I just wanna know if anyone else has done this, been online friends/fun buds?

I said I'd be able to work in the fall but I can't because I'm going to college. I lied because I've applied so many places and been honest but they won't hire summer help, and I need money. I'll be able to work for about a month. I already scheduled an interview, but is this a mistake? My parents are ok with me lying, but is it even worth it? And if you think it's a mistake, how can I get out of it

I know most of the atheists I've met are peaceful and have good morals, but mostly bitter. I'm an atheist and I want to meet a positive person who loves life and doesn't look at everything through a lens that says "I'm smarter/better than everyone." I want a guy who wants to wait for sex for when they fall in love, because they know that it's more satisfying that way. Every guy I have a crush on has all the positive aspects of being a Christian, but I can't bring myself to believe in all of the contradicting bible verses and the fact that there's an invisible man in the sky listening to me complain and ask for things. I can't pretend to be a Christian because it's deceptive. Maybe it's because i live in TN, I haven't met a lot of atheists. Any thoughts guys?

I bought these a few years ago..

http://www.sheknows.co.uk/beauty-and-love/articles...

(Same glasses Zooey deschanel wears in new girl)

And I'm trying to decide if I should replace the lenses for the frame or just trash them. Are they attractive or not?

I'm 18, and I'm going on a family vacation for a week to the beach. I'll have opportunities to be at the beach or pool alone, but I'm really shy. Do you guys have any tips on finding guys when you're alone? Are there ways to get them to come up to me or do I just have to be bold? Tips?!?! Thanks!

I used to love dancing, singing, and playing piano and then my parents gave me lessons in all these things over the years. I used to love songwriting and used it to escape my daily terrors but then my voice teacher found out that I wrote and now I hate it. Everything I do I feel has to be perfect because someone's always watching or holding me accountable. These days I just wanna give up on everything and lie in bed. I'm a perfectionist but nothing's ever good enough for these people. Do you ever feel this way? I don't even know who I am because everyone's always told me what to do.

Ok, so I haven't had friends for years because I'm incredibly shy. I'm now 18, and I need to escape my emotionally abusive family and hang out with someone. I took this girl on a trip because I won a radio contest, and while we were there it seemed like we were having a great time. She opened up to me and told me some major secrets, and i felt like i could finally be myself. But ever since we got back it seems like she's been pushing me away...idk. We talked about hanging out after the trip a few times while we were there but she hasn't asked me yet. And I don't wanna seem pushy by asking her...it just seems weird. I mean I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. I don't know how friends normally ask others to hang out considering I'm inexperienced, and I'm not even sure if I should. What do you think?

I kinda wanna dye my hair either dark red velvet or light brown (its dark brown now) but my mom says I should go light brown because my personality couldn't pull red velvet off. I want to look more indie/edgy and get choppy layers with the color also. I'm a shy person, so is my personality too quiet for such a loud color?

In your opinion? And don't say "his soul is all that matters blah blah". I know looks aren't everything I'm just curious because we're talking about sexuality in psychology. So purely physically...

Hair color? Eye color? Skinny? Fat? What does he wear? Etc.

I showed my teacher a song and he said "what are you doing, trying to pull a Pink Floyd on me?" It's a slow song, it's technically 4 minutes and 50 sec.... Verse1/prechorus/chorus/verse2/prechorus/chorus

I'm doing stop motion animation to it.

Too long??

Lyrically I mean? Please give an honest opinion, all my friends/family say about everything I do is "yeah that's awesome". Looking for real opinions. Thanks!!!

Verse one:

Tiny birds, swinging on telephone lines.

Listening, through their feet to the conversational lies.

School boys, throw their converses up over the wire.

Into the blue, into the blackened, bruised sky.

Air balloon, holding the ground by a string.

I resume, doing the very same thing.

Wish I knew, I didn't have to cling.

Onto the past, onto the shadows I'm casting.

PreChorus:

(And I don't even know/How to let it go)

Chorus:

If I'm not mistaken I'm not my mistakes.

Craving control over things that I hate,

And it feels like I've taken all i can take,

(I'm) A habit waiting to break.

Verse Two:

Playing cards, wish he could just find an ace.

Chips and dice,scattered all over the place.

Apathy, written all over his face.

Outside he loses, inside he chooses, this is the end.

Breathing in, all of the life I've become.

Breathing out, smoking the winter air's made my fingers numb.

Didn't know, being smart could make a person dumb.

It's not in the plan, to sit when I stand, not what I intend.

Prechorus, Repeat chorus 2x

I was thinking of double majoring because my major is going to be audio engineering, and I know that's not a very secure job. Does it seem weird to you that double majoring isn't allowed only in the college of business at my school (Middle Tennessee State University?) it makes me kinda mad... Is there anyway to get around this?

I live in TN and I'm thinking of moving to NYC when I get out of college at age 22.I want life to be an adventure: not sure I'd be happy living in Tennessee forever. Only prob is, I want to be an audio engineer and I'm afraid of not having job stability that far away from home. I plan to get summer jobs and put about $7000 in savings before making the move, and I won't have any student loans because I have a full scholarship to my college. What would you do in my situation? Would you be scared to leave everything behind?

Like in the movie friends with benefits where mila kunis and justin timberlake are in NYC and they fall in love.... Or any other romantic movie for that matter. Do you believe in "happily ever afters"? Or am I romanticizing life ?

Assuming you are attracted to girls, where does she rate physically on a scale of 1-10? (One being Susan Boyle, ten being Megan fox)

-size 4 jeans

-cup size 36B

-brunette

-small hazel eyes

-pretty full lips

-straight teeth

-5'7 125lbs

Guys sporting black frames just really turn me on... Musicians also turn me on. A hipstery musician with frames and a sweet personality would make my head spin. What weirdly turns you on?