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I live in Hawaii, and a close friend was convicted for DUI. I read online that some states have a program where after a certain period of good behavior a person's record can be cleared, and I would like to pass this information on if possible.

I danced at my own wedding and my best friend is asking me to dance a hula at hers. She wants a slow tempo (think Love Song of Kalua slow) and in Hawaiian.

I do NOT want to dance the Hawaiian Wedding Song....any ideas? please?

My sister has started sewing and LOVES it (is even selling her work) and I would like to get her some fabric for her birthday because I know she would like that! She does a lot of purses and uses mostly Michael Miller fabrics with pinks in them... I want to get something different but that will fit in!

My best friend is getting married this summer, and she is looking for a necklace like the one Giselle was wearing for her wedding. I have been looking high and low for one like this but havent had any luck yet!

Any suggestions on where to look or any keywords I can search with?

The necklace can be seen at:

http://www.disneydreaming.com/wp-content/uploads/2...

Thank you for your help...I realize this is kind of a random request but I would love to surprise her by finding her exactly what she wants!

We adopted her and were planning to have her spayed, as the vet told us this was best for her since we are not planning to breed her. They did a pre-surgury exam and tested a blood sample and found out that her blood doesn't clot properly (which is extremely rare in female cats!). This means if she has surgery or is in an accident (such as being hit by a car) her blood will not clot and she could bleed to death. They said they can do a blood transfusion before surgery and that she should be okay.

However, my thought is that this is an optional surgery, and with her blood having clotting problems I would rather her not even be put in a situation where she is at risk.

She lives in our 4th floor apartment and does not go outside so an unplanned pregnancy is not an issue.

There is a slight financial spin to this issue, as it will now cost us upward of $300 for the transfusion to have her spayed, in addition to spaying costs (even with the humane society "coupon" it's still almost $200). I love this cat very much, but I can't afford to spend that much on MYSELF! Pet insurance now will not cover this condition so we're kind of stuck.

If she is not spayed, will she still live a happy life? I know she can yowl and be troublesome in that way, but the inconvenience isn't enough for me to want to put her at risk like this.

A friend of mine has a stray cat that she feeds, which had a litter of 4 kittens in her open air garage. All 4 of the kittens are running around, jumping and playing, they eat dry food and drink water, but will occasionally nurse from mom.

The kittens play with each other by chasing, pouncing and wrestling, and they also play with little toys in the garage. They leave their "den" to relieve themselves also. Their eyes are blue but they are starting to change. From what I can see the have all their teeth.

The kittens have been getting braver and leaving the garage to play, and while if they were indoor cats I would leave them with their mom until about 12 weeks, as they are outdoors I am afraid the neighbors dog will get them or they will run off.

They are very comfortable with me and will play with me and bat at me.

Any cat experts, do these kitties sound like they might be okay to go to new homes?

I can't remember all the lyrics for the life of me, but I know it's a very upbeat and fun song. Some of the words are "You are God in Heaven" and "All the world will know your name."

I realize that isn't a lot to go on, but it's going to bug me now! Any ideas?

I have very fine, thin hair and I live in a hot, humid climate. I have always washed it every day because when I don't it gets greasy and looks bad.

The last time I went to get my hair cut, the lady there said it was very damaged and that I need to baby it until the damaged part grows out and is eventually trimmed off.

I do not blow dry or straighten or curl, but the sun and air conditioner seem to me messing with my hair.

If I was my hair every day with a gentle shampoo, is this going to be detrimental? I'm trying the every other day routine now and it's so icky.

He is not able to earn any money or work (due to immigration procedure), but he was married in 2008. We do not have an ITIN number for him and as he is not a resident (proceedings are still underway) he also is not able to get a social security card.

Should I file my taxes just for myself and not file anything for him, as he did not earn money or depend on government funding for anything? Or will that cause problems?

My boss has a short temper and a dirty mouth. I have noticed it before but it was never directed at me, so I never made a big deal out of it.

Yesterday I got a call from him in which I was yelled at and swore at due to a situation I had no control over.

I've put up with a great deal from these people, but I definately don't think it's right for them to swear/yell at me.

Someone suggested filing a grievance, what is a good option for me? I don't care if they fire me at this point; no job is worth getting abused.

(I live in Hawaii)

I just replaced the radiator about a month ago, and it has been driving fine. Just this morning I noticed that when I was stopped in traffic there was some smoke coming out of the engine area. It was sweet and smelled like antifreeze. When I turned the air conditioner off the smoke stopped but I could still smell that antifreeze smell.

The temperature seemed to be perfectly fine and when it was checked last there were no problems.

What is going on and is it safe for me to drive it the 15 miles to get home before getting it looked at? I don't want to mess up the engine by driving it when it needs to be looked at!

I spent 6 months in England (with very little sun) and recently returned home to Hawaii (a great deal more sun!).

I started using Mary Kay classic skin care system as soon as I came home, and I also got a lot of sun right away.

I always use plenty of sunscreen so I never burned, I just got more brown.

My cheeks now have weird patches of darker skin that is similar to the pregnancy mask women get (but I am not pregnant) so I am wondering if this is hormonal.

Any ideas? I am 25 and caucasian, is this just a normal age related thing?

My sister had bouquets called "kissing balls" that were pretty cool, but I want to do something a little different. I want to go for simple and elegant, and all I can think of are calla lilies.

Any ideas? What are you going to have at your wedding?

I know the story of Joshua and marching around the city and the walls coming down... I am not here to debate that. I'm trying to figure out how big the city was, and having a lot of trouble!

Anybody have any ideas (or ideas of where to look)? Google isnt helping me much...

I have been reading articles online but I am wondering if there is a place where I can research the different candidates and see who I want to vote for. I can't download videos where I am (veerrry slow internet) so I can't watch past debates. Any advice?

This is really strange and I don't understand it. When I drink milk, I feel really sick. Like nauseus and my stomach gets upset. It's not psychological because I used to LOVE milk. So I switched to soy milk, and thats no problem.

But somehow when I eat cheese I don't get sick, and I've even had yoghurt that didn't make me feel bad at all. I had assumed I was lactose intolerant, but this confuses me.

Has anyone else had similar experiences or know what is going on with this?

I know it is a series of three shots, I had the first two while I had a great insurance plan. Now my health insurance doesn't cover most shots and so I need to find out how much it costs to get the last shot! Any ideas of where I can look to find this out?

I tried calling my doctor and they didn't know either!

I usually don't eat them much, so as a result I don't know how to prepare them! I'm a vegetarian and tryint to figure out something for dinner that involves the potatoe...

can you bake them like an ordinary potato?

I am planning to go to England as a missionary support worker, and I have no idea who to contact or where to apply... Any help would be great! I will probably be going for a year minimum, so from what I know I do need a Visa, but I haven't a clue as to wher to start.

Thanks in advance!

And now I am having a hard time finding the same product for less that $40... I paid MUCH less for it before I knew how much I liked it, and now I just can't bring myself to pay 10X the amount I got it for originally. Now, I know you get what you pay for.... I'm just wondering if there are any genuine bargains to find out there!

Can anyone help?