Anisha81

My wife and I had a conversation and I spoke something bad about her parents. She got upset and scolded me in bad words/language. I could not control my temper and started abusing her by hitting her head and wacked her physically with my hands. She hit me and I hit her back. She cried and was in pain. Now, she doesn't want to sleep in our bedroom and is sleeping in the guest room. My wife is 6 months pregnant. I feel bad and I can't sleep. What should I do to gain her back?

I am working in a accountacy office in my local area. i am 25. I have a customer who always likes to come to my firm. he is around in his 60's. he always likes to look at me from head to toe. i dont know how he managed to get my mobile number and since then he always likes to call or text me asking me to go out with him. once i went out with him and he kept looking at me all over me. last week when i was walking to my car to go back home his car was parked next to mine. he got down and passed me some DVD's and asked me to watch it. thinking it's just movies, i watched. it was all porn and sexual materials. He sent me a text asking me to enjoy it. what does he really want from me and what is he thinking?

I am working in a accountacy office in my local area. i am 25. I have a customer who always likes to come to my firm. he is around in his 60's. he always likes to look at me from head to toe. i dont know how he managed to get my mobile number and since then he always likes to call or text me asking me to go out with him. once i went out with him and he kept looking at me all over me. last week when i was walking to my car to go back home his car was parked next to mine. he got down and passed me some DVD's and asked me to watch it. thinking it's just movies, i watched. it was all porn and sexual materials. He sent me a text asking me to enjoy it. what does he really want from me and what is he thinking?

i broke up from a mentally abusive r/ship 1 week ago.and now i got a new news that my mum wants to **** from this place to another city with my sister. my sis is married and she got her kids. house is small and no privacy.i feel miserable.i havv told mymum many times but she doesnt want to listen.s he's gng there ot help my sister tc of her kids coz my sis needs to go and work. we need to be commited there for at least 5 years. i feel horrible.i dont know how or what to say but every night when i wake up, i usd to think why why shud my life be so unpredictable as this. i love staying here in this city and now i got to shift to a city 5 hours away from home. i wanted to work here but my mum said i must work in the new city. i feel my life is so controlled. what shud i do? i'm single and working and studying at the same time.

I had been undet tremendous pressure and confusion for the past few days.For my intro,I had been in a very stressful r/ship in the sense tht my so called "ex" used to be torturing me with his words and scrutinity, treating me like a small kid and always saying tht i'm stubborn, wrong, and playful. i tried many times to prove to him tht i truly loved him but one small thing wud trigger his head to shout or scold me or even keep silently away from me.there were days i used to cry to him tht i truly want him back but he will say hurting words lke i'm with other men or i'm not serious with him.i used to be in pain for almost 3 years.flunk my exams coz i cudnt concentrate.(I got my degree in Law anyway now).About 6 months back, i got to know sumone new but he's way much older then me.Only he managed to recover me from my past trauma and he gav me so much unconditional love.he's really a nice man and i love him so much.i'm confused now coz i keep thinking abt my ex.i called my ex.wat 2 do?

I am writing this message under a weak condition.I had been suffering for the past 2 yrs till I can't take it anymore. it's abt my 41 yr old bf!I dont understand him.WHen i call him every hour or 5 times a day or more, i'm an angel to him but when i'm bz with work or even sick, and if i dont call him, he will accuse me tht i'm cheating him and i'm with another men or tht i'm a B****. I dont know why he has such split personality but i dont want to condemn him coz i want 2 know if i am in the mistake or not.When i ask him y can't he call, he pushes the blame to me saying tht i'm a bz women.for your kind info, i'm just completing my Masters and i'm a fulltime student. I work part time @ a law firm but tht is not an excuse for him not to cal me.For instance,2day i ws down with high fever and stomach cramps.I text him via phone tht i wasnt feeling well.He messaged and told me to tc.The whole day he did't call n i was fast asleeep.whn i awoke to cal,he didn't answer me and accused me.

I am writing this message under a weak condition.I had been suffering for the past 2 yrs till I can't take it anymore. it's abt my 41 yr old bf!I dont understand him.WHen i call him every hour or 5 times a day or more, i'm an angel to him but when i'm bz with work or even sick, and if i dont call him, he will accuse me tht i'm cheating him and i'm with another men or tht i'm a B****. I dont know why he has such split personality but i dont want to condemn him coz i want 2 know if i am in the mistake or not.When i ask him y can't he call, he pushes the blame to me saying tht i'm a bz women.for your kind info, i'm just completing my Masters and i'm a fulltime student. I work part time @ a law firm but tht is not an excuse for him not to cal me.For instance,2day i ws down with high fever and stomach cramps.I text him via phone tht i wasnt feeling well.He messaged and told me to tc.The whole day he did't call n i was fast asleeep.whn i awoke to cal,he didn't answer me and accused me.

my dear friends...i got to know this guy online and e were talking to each other for abt a week. finally, he said he wanted to meet and i said fine. we were suposed to meet yesterday. The night b4, my mum wasn't feeling well and i sent him a text message stating that i wouldnt be able to make it for the meeting as i need to tak emy mum for check up and i'll try to meet him by this week. tht's it. after tha ti never heard from him at all. many times i called him today but he neve rpicked my call. then, i met him on yahoo messenger and he said tht i'm a women who plays with men and he told me to keep away from him and never to clal him again or he would get really upset. Why did he change like this?i ont understand. If he was upset with me tht he cudnt meet me, then shud i have left my mum and just met him? i thought he was understanding. i lost a friend and i feel guilty. but why did he accuse me tht i m playing with men and i shudnt treat him like an animal?al those words hurt me

i've known this guy for the past 3 months and we've been talking thru the phone after getting to know each other from an advert. he sounds very nice and matured. i am starting to like him but i haven't given my heart 100%. Now, is the big problem. He says he wants to meet me coz he said, even being friends, we should know who we are talking to and just talking on the phone will not give any face to face benefits. i prolonged the meeting many times but he never questioned me and left it to my convinience as to when we shud meet in a public place. the prob is tht, I am not comfortable with the way i look. I am fat, my face has pimples scars) and i have an eye bag. what if he seems me and after that he doesnt call me? I am very worried coz he's also a human being who wud like to have a girl who is at least nice to look at. I never told him anything abt my looks b4. Now i'm in his town and he knows that. just now he called and told me it's high time we meet. hw can i escape?i am worried

i'm 25 and my bf is in his early 40's. I only broke up with him 4 days back. I was fine for those days and now i feel pain and soar in my heart. i feel like calling him back and to be with him. I called him ealier but he's not answering my calls. The reason we broke up was becoz he has high level of susicions against me and he loves to link me with other men.He abuses me mentally and he treats me like a small Kid. Many times i told him i was a clan girl and i only had him in my heart but he still doubts me.i went thru this treatment for 2 years.the final straw was tht i shouted at him and told him he was overly possessing me. tht's it. he told me i wanted other men that's why i was condeming him. i didn't condemn him, i just wantd him to know how i felt. NOw i feel so much pain. wat should I do?

Friends, friends, please help me!I have this bf of mine who is 41 yrs old (i'm 25) and he's kind of mentally torturing me.Let me share with u wat is happening then u might know whether i'm being tortured or not.My bf is very VERY suspicious and he hates me to talk to any of my friends and even bars me from doing anything I like, eg. going to work or even going to the movie.At 1st he agrees but later on when he starts a fight he will accuse tht i m a Bi*** and i have cheated him.As far as i know, he's my 1st bf and i never had feelings for other men.i do have friends but dont tell me a girl can't even say Hi to her male colleague or frens.Whenever i break up wth him,he threatens me and shouts at me tht i've cheated him and he's gng to end his life and makes me feel guilty for his condition.Last night he called and said he's dying and he's admitted in the hosp coz he feels i'm having an affair.I sewared and cried to him tht did not.He's making me so miserable i can't even go to work.

Are the any side-effects or long run health defect that could be caused if one cried too much , like everyday? I am 25 and i've got a bf who is 41, he makes me cry almost everyday and night by making me feel so low and bringin down my self esteem.when i cry, he stops and he continues to torture me the next day.Is crying everyday harmful for the body and the eyes?Sometimes, I usd to cry the whole night till morning.

I am 25 and i just graduated 1 year back with a law degree.I was working as a tution teacher for one year after graduation at a tution centre belonging to one of my close friend and it was not tht hard to get a job at tht time.Now, i feel like i want to practise law but the thing is that, I need to call up law firms and inquire if they have vacancy.I called few places and they dont have vacancy for the post i am looking for.Now, i've developed fear in me and i've stopped calling other law firms for i'm afraid of the rejection.I feel kind of withdrawn to make any moves. If i go on like this, I might not be able to find a job and support for my post graduate education.How do i develop the courage to keep trying and how do i impress the person i talk to when i call them for the job? please advice.

I am 25 and i just graduated 1 year back with a law degree.I was working as a tution teacher for one year after graduation at a tution centre belonging to one of my close friend and it was not tht hard to get a job at tht time.Now, i feel like i want to practise law but the thing is that, I need to call up law firms and inquire if they have vacancy.I called few places and they dont have vacancy for the post i am looking for.Now, i've developed fear in me and i've stopped calling other law firms for i'm afraid of the rejection.I feel kind of withdrawn to make any moves. If i go on like this, I might not be able to find a job and support for my post graduate education.How do i develop the courage to keep trying and how do i impress the person i talk to when i call them for the job? please advice.

I'm 25 and my bf is 41.I live with my parents and I'm a victim of mental abuse as my bf wud emotionally tear and bring me down each time he has a good chance. My health is very bad now and I'm going thru depression. the thing is that, each time my bf emotionally abuses me, I would CRY and since i'm staying with my parents, I dont want to show them the problem or the swollen face that I have from the fact tht I cried or hurt myself. DOes anyone here know how can I look normal and without puffineess in my eyes if i had cried? thanks for helping me.

I'm 24 & i graduated in Law with honours, under an external Uni.In my country, in order to practise Law as n advocate and solicitor, one shud take the local paper which ill only then give us the legal practicing certificate.It's really hard to get thru this paper as they will only pass 20% of the students.I took this paper in 2005 and i failed the exam.In 2006 i resat for the 5 subjects again and I managed to get good grades for 3 papers with A's and B but failed in 2 subjects with just a few more mark to pass.I have to resit the whole papers (5) again in 2007 and this is really frustrating me.My family had so much hope tht this time i wud get thru but i dont know why this happened to me.I sat day & night and studied but still I failed the exam.I dont know if i'd want to re-sit the papers.If i dont resit, i might not be able to practise as a lawyer and my dreams wud be shaterred.I really need sum advice on this as I'm afraid to make the wrong decision. Please help me as helpin a fren.

I'm 24 & i graduated in Law with honours, under an external Uni.In my country, in order to practise Law as n advocate and solicitor, one shud take the local paper which ill only then give us the legal practicing certificate.It's really hard to get thru this paper as they will only pass 20% of the students.I took this paper in 2005 and i failed the exam.In 2006 i resat for the 5 subjects again and I managed to get good grades for 3 papers with A's and B but failed in 2 subjects with just a few more mark to pass.I have to resit the whole papers (5) again in 2007 and this is really frustrating me.My family had so much hope tht this time i wud get thru but i dont know why this happened to me.I sat day & night and studied but still I failed the exam.I dont know if i'd want to re-sit the papers.If i dont resit, i might not be able to practise as a lawyer and my dreams wud be shaterred.I really need sum advice on this as I'm afraid to make the wrong decision. Please help me as helpin a fren.

My bf is 41 and i'm 25. He's been divorced and when he knew me first, i felt like i knew an angel. he was so loving and caring to me.After 6 months of the r/ship he started to show his true colour, meaning he started to be over-possesive over me and got very jealous eac time i went out or even spoke to a fren who is a gal, wat else a guy. he will call me Bit** and use so much vulgar words to me.he will condem me like as if i was his house maid.Many times i had pleaded to him to end this r/ship with me but he still keep caling and threatening me tht if i leave him he will commit suicide and i'm to be blamed.SO i am sticking to this r/ship with tht fear and pain.i feel so abused and mentally i feel i'm not capable of anything coz he made me feel so dependant on him and he shouts and yells at me.I only wanted love and he talks so hurting to me.I can't tell this to my parents as they're old and they will get sick kowing what i went thru.how long more to go thru this?