Nomo

ok....i'm a 23 year old female and one of my best friends of 13years is male and now and again i think i have feelings for him. things have happened over the years but we've never got together. All my work mates joke that i like him and i deny it till i'm blue in the face but he has this girlfriend now who is lovely and he has been going out with her for a year and i've been saying for ages that i think she is the one for him. then for the first time he admits himself that he thinks she is the one and since then i've had feelings. Am i just nervous because he seems to be settling and i'm still single or am i worried that now nothing will ever happen between us? so how do u get over it?! phew long story lol

i work in an underwear shop and normally i will ask the customer 'are you OK there?!' or 'do you need any help there at all' which normally ends in them saying yes or no (closed question). i try to ask open questions like 'what size are you looking for?' or 'are you looking for a specific size' but I'm really struggling to think of any more open questions. any ideas would be much appreciated.

a little random but i have a very unusual voice and it is on my bucket list (a list of things you want to do before you die) to be the voice of an advert or something along those lines. i am female with a deep voice but i get a lot of compliments for it so what is there out there and how can i get into it?!

any answers or any information would be greatly appreciated

female...22years old xxx

i had feelings for my best friend, he's a guy i'm a girl and he was always in relationships so i thought i'd got over my stupid crush. then he split up with his girlfriend and i thought i was still over him, like 7months after they broke up we were out and we started kissing, then another time we nearly had sex and then all these stupid ******* ideas come back into my head. i have known him since i was 11 and i'm 22 now. so i start thinking that we may have a repeat performance of the almost sex and actually have it lol, then i find out he's going back out with his ex...he hasn't told me himself, my brother (who is also his friend) told me and now i feel like an absolute ******** for letting myself get carried away. so seriously what should i do, how do i get over my best mate. i feel like a ******* school girl for christs sake lol. any advice is needed!!!

ok so a girl i worked with got tickets to leeds fest for her and her boyfriend and then they split up so she was saying she didn't have anyone to go with so i said i would. now...i WAS excited by this apart from the fact that this girl has recently been doing my head in...i mean really, the thought of spending the entire day with her is actually making me get myself really worked up and i don't know what to do. i have paid for my ticket but i'm frightened if i go i will just have a massive argument with her and ruin it anyway. i feel bad if i cancel because she could have sold both tickets but i really don't think i want to go anymore. what should i do help?!

i have always wanted to do the splits,so are there any exercises or stretches i can do that will allow me to become more flexible so i can eventually do the splits. i am quite flexible now so just need some advice please. thanks x

random and probably a very stupid question but will it be valid when i get back home?!

ok so me and my friend are from the uk and we are going to mexico cancun may 5th for a girly holiday....someone told us it was spring break. so i just want to know if we're going at the same time. thank you....oooo also has anyone been to mexico and is it nice?! thanks

i keep having these really vivid dreams and when i wake up i remember every last detail about them. the one i had last night started with my friends wanting to be in the navy and if a man gave you a piece of rice and a picture of a spoon you were in...i didn't even want to go but somehow i got a piece of rice. then it jumped to my house and it was raining ALOT and me and these people started carving melons into light art work things and someone asked what it was for and one of the girls said its for thea (thea is my friend who died in a car accident 2years ago) then my hand started going funny and someone put a pen in it and i started writing like thea did and she was saying she missed us and that she was doing a job for god. then a man saw me do it and started running away and i chased him onto this train and he said he didn't believe what i'd done and said he'd only believe if i started to bleed...and what do you know my hand started bleeding and i was shouting "please sir wait i'm bleeding, its all over my coat" and i had my hand raised in the air then i woke up......WHAT THE HELL lol, if anyone has like a dreambook or has any ideas please answer....thankyou!

she is sat next to me and says she doesn't care about what other people think about things on here...your thoughts please!

i am a 21 year old woman and i have never been in love. i have never had a proper relationship and i'm just wondering why that is. my friends tell me i'm completely oblivious to guys checking me out and when i do notice and start chatting i get the whole 'your really funny' or 'your a awesome girl' bit but it never goes any further. what am i doing wrong? any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks

i have an nvq level 3 in swedish body massage and i just can't seem to find a job in my area, they're always looking for beauty therapists so i was thinking of doing it on the side but how do i go about advertising and getting some business going? i have my own massage table and just want to have a few regular clients. i'm a 21 year old female as well so don't really want some pervert either ha ha. any advice would be appreciated

i don't know what to do for the best....i feel like everything around me is just going bad, my home life isn't great...i feel like i can't do stuff because i have to look after my mum and i think if something else happens i'm just not gonna be able to cope...how much can 1 person take on?

i am not really religious and i don't have any problems with people who are, my brother is but it also causes loads of conflict...so tell me...what's so great, your opinions please.

well, i always have dreams and i remember nearly all of them but recently my dreams have been really bizarre. for example, in this 1 dream i was walking to the bus stop to go to work (which i do every morning) then this army van pulls up and these guys pull me inside the van...i start to freak out and ask them what they're doing and they reply "ow don't worry your friends hired us for a surprise party for you...like a hired kidnapping" but i am still scared then i get thrown in a room and this guy comes in and tells me that it was a lie what the said in the van and he starts beating me up and shouting, "just tell me now....if you tell me it will all be over" but i have no idea what he is talking about and i'm crying and telling him he's got the wrong person and i'm throwing my arms to try and hit him but he just keeps hitting me! i wake up really jumpy and i've had this dream twice...any advice would be great...thanks

just want to know about people who have had experiences or people who think it's all just a load of bull...your thoughts please!

i'm going to a work christmas party and i have bought this black dress from monsoon. it looks really nice on and it comes to just bellow my knee, the problem is i absolutely hate my legs and was wondering whether i could wear a thick black pair of opaque tights and some black patent shoes with it? i'm not very good with computers but i think this is the link to my dress if not i'm sorry. thank you http://www.monsoon.co.uk/invt/35212703&bklist=icat...

ok, i'm a girl and i have been friends with this boy for 11years, he is one of my best friends and i have tried to convince myself i don't like him like that...but i do! it is driving me mad because i know nothing could ever happen and i'm frightened its ruining my chances of meeting someone else. all my friends say he likes me but he is the kind of guy who would say something if he did. i don't want to ruin our friendship so what should i do? please help lol how do i get over him?!!

guess...and get creative guys, use that muscle called a brain!

when you read fashion things on what to wear to help your shape i am not a shape!!! i have a bum and hips but i'm not a pear shape because i have a tummy...i'm not an hour glass as i don't have boobs but i do have abit of a waste but i'm quite square on top too....i'm not disgustin lol as you prob think but i just don't know what shape i am? help