chaps'n'love

I'm not really sure what to do here. Ok, here it goes - Last night I found some information about how my best friend had lost her virginity to her ex-boyfriend about 6 months ago. That information in and of itself doesn't bother me in the slightest, but what bothers me is that she never told me about this. I can see how it is something private and it isn't like she ABSOLUTELY has to tell me. But a little less than a month ago we were talking and I asked her if she had had sex with her ex and she told me she hadn't, and that she had been waiting for me to ask her that. I told her that I assumed if she had slept with him she would have told me, and she said that was true - that if she ever did anything like that with anyone she would tell me. Except she didn't. I'm just feeling very confused. I want to ask her about it, but what if she didn't want me to know about it? It wasn't like I was snooping around, trying to find evidence that she had slept with him. I took her word and didn't think twice about it until last night when I was presented with this new information. The new source might be false. True. I actually have been hoping it was false simply to pacify my nerves. I just want some opinions on the situation. I feel like there is this huge, awkward space between us now and I kind of just want to bring it up in the open and tell her that this is what I heard, and if it's true then that's fine and if it isn't true then that's fine too, because I'll accept her no matter what and I want to know about these things so I can support her and help her any way I can (apparently, according to my source, she thought she was pregnant). But how would I go about doing that? Do you think it would be best to just try and ignore it, try and stay out of "her business"?

It's hard - I'm sure she didn't tell me for her own, separate reasons, but I can't help but feel like she doesn't trust me or she doesn't feel like she can be 100% open with me. And she lied to me about it. We don't lie to each other... I just don't know what to do.

Ok, so I remember I used to love this song that I believe was called "Valentine." I don't know the artist. All i remeber about the song is it is something to do with this girl mixing drinks in the kitchen, the singer has a sort of raspy voice, and one of the lines from the chorus goes something like , "valentine, you're the one i (i'll?) remember."

I already searched Google and found nothing, I'm hoping someone can help me out here. Thank you.

Ok, so this may sound a little weird but here it goes...

So ever since I was little, I never really had a dad. The only adult guys i ever saw were my mom's boyfriend's, and that'ss about it. Just a little background.

Fast forward to my teenage years and i feel like a total mess. I feel like i can't just be friends with any guy. I'm always super self conscious around guys, and i'm 16! I mean, I hang out with guys when my friends are there, but by myself I feel like a nervous wreck. I kind of feel like like i'm constantly flirting with all the guyss, even though i'm not even that good of a flirt!

I know that is probably very confusing for any of you to understand but my main question is how can i become friends with a guy? How can i be myself around them?

Ok so we have this assignment in our photo class to take 20 pictures telling our life story (more like what we like, what we do...) and i'm having trouble coming up with 20 things..obviously, you don't know my life story or anything (not that there's much of a story anyway) but what are some generic ideas? I already have family, friends, reading, pet and things like that...but does anyone have any interesting ideas? Thanks in advance.

please help?

its not in my math book,

jamie doesnt know,

and nothing comes up on google.

i'm asking why not because its in the question, but i really need to know.

Thank You!

does this ring any bells?

what's the name of the song?

thank you.

dick??? is this true?

Hey guys!

I'm thinking about dying my hair a shade of brown.

Right now it's dirty blonde

and I have blue eyes with pretty fair skin and freckles.

how do you think this would look?

if you think it would look good, what shade of brown?

if not, what colors would look good?

thanks in advance.

just wondering.

We have to make a website in school, so school appropriate topics. Just tryin to think of unique, quirky ideas.

thanks

:)

hey there. I love the looks of urban outfitters and betsey johnson, but i don't have much money to go spend. I was hoping i could find out the basic, core items i need and how to make the clothes i already have work. i have the basic things like screen tees, sweaters, jeans, tanks, you know. thanks! all help is appreciated :)

Just please rad and don't tell me "you're ungrateful!"I never have spare cash-ever. There is always something that needs to be paid for, like my food, gym membership,etc. And my parents never buy me stuff I actually love. This year I decided i would make a list&guide my parents into what I wanted. The big thing was I had broken my digital camera and I wanted a replacement.They agreed, and told me I could pick any one.

I spent $200 on my parents gifts which means I had to give up a lot.Christmas Eve I had to spend at a friends house and watch her open tons of boxes marked "Bloomingdales", "nordstroms", she even got a new digital camera as well.But i kept thinking "well, at least I can get a new camera.." So after my parents opened all their gifts, I realized there was only one box for me. It was seven hanes tank tops!They told me they were getting my old camera(that i hated and really banged up) fixed. Now i'm upset and my parents don't understand why. Do i have a right to be upset?