Jess

Sometimes I feel like a girl, other times I feel genderless. Is that called genderfluid, or is it something else?

Ok so I am a biological girl, and like half the time, I don't feel like I should be a girl. I don't feel like I should be a boy, either. I feel like nothing. Like, on a scale, if girl was 1, neutral was 5, and boy was 10, i'd say I'm at around a 3 or 4. Is there a name for this?

So my mom and I were in the same room last night, and she couldn't sleep, so she just layed there in the dark. She said that while I was sleeping, I stood up, said about 2 sentences in a language that sounded like greek (NOBODY in my family is Greek or speaks greek) as I turned around in a circle. Then I just went back to bed. I'm freaked out. The ONLY language I know is english, so even if it wasnt greek, it was something. She said that it sounded really fluent, like I've known it my whole life.

Ok so I have an account on instagram, and this person comments "hey I really love your account. The theme is great, just try polishing it a little bit!" (I asked, they didn't just randomly comment) so what do they mean by that?

I love singing, and there's no better feeling to me than being on a stage. It's my life. I've been singing since I could talk, I was raised singing. Lately I just get so sad when I sing, and I don't know why. a lot of people in there are better than I am, and that's not me being insecure or anything, it's the truth. I love singing but I also hate it. If I quit i'll never get to be on a stage, but if I stay... I just don't know it that's the best idea. What do I do??

Ok so part of me wants to look really neat and sophisticated and somewhat girly/feminine, but the other part of me just wants to wear black and laid back graphic tees and stuff. Is there a way I can mix both?

I wore a ponytail today and I'm too lazy to wash my hair tonight plus it's late so can I wear it again tomorrow? I'm that girl who always wears her hair down, so would it seem weird or gross? Or is it okay?

Hey okay so I'm 14, and when I was younger, (13) I had a super raspy, dirty voice. Then, I started taking vocal lessons, and I noticed that my dirty voice was slowly going away. I lost my naturally raspy voice. How can I get it back?? I honestly hate having a clean, "pure" Voice. I want my old voice back. For good.

Hey, so, most of my wardrobe is Floral Tops and blue or black Skinny Jeans. I've always felt more comfortable with the "emo" look, and in dark clothes, and I dressed girly for years to please other people. But I don't wanna do that anymore, so how can I mix the girly look with an emo look? I don't wanna let go of girly completely, but I also don't wanna keep doing what I'm doing. I don't have many band shirts or anything, but I already have the Black shoes and dark jeans. What else can I do to make myself less girly?

I see it in captions, I see it in subtweets, I hear it said verbally. If you dont post about your life... what else is there? isn't that kind of what social media is for?

I cant seem to get it right..

lately, my friend has been doing a bunch of things she KNOWS I hate. At first I thought "oh haha nobody's perfect. I'll get over it." But it's more than one thing! We're best friends, so she knows all the things I don't like, and I know all the things she doesn't like. I try to avoid doing/saying the things that bug her, but It almost seems like she's doing it on purpose! I tried talking to her about it, and she pretty much just brushed it off. It's seriously bothering me so much, she doesn't have a good reason to be mad at me. Wtf do I do?

I'm just so sick of everything. I try and try and try to be good enough for people, but I'm tired of being alone! I have absolutely no friends, and I get made fun of every single day. My parents are no help, they couldn't care less if I was around or not. I'm just so done with everything.

So I'm a young girl, not old enough to drive, so I can't go anywhere. But I need to get out of this house! It is absolutely killing me, sitting here, doing the same damn thing every day. The roads and sidewalks are covered in snow and ice, and it's very cold where I am, so I can't safely/comfortably walk. What should I do?

If I take a pot, and just fill it with water, and put it in the room, will it add more humidity to the room? Or does it have to be boiling water?

So my bed has a headboard, and from years of me resting my (oily) head/hair against it while I read and whatnot, it's gathered oil. Dry shampoo soaks up all the extra oil, right? So can I spray the furniture to get rid of the oil, or is there a better way to clean it? It's wood, if that helps at all. Can I spray it, or will that ruin it?

So I already posted this, but I need more feedback

So, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months. He had 3 snapchat best friends, and the second 2 are guys, but the first one is a girl. And I don't know her. Just last night, she was 3rd on the list. So he was snapchatting her lste st night, or early in the morning. I kind of want to ask him about it, but I also really don't. I don't want to come off as "that girl" (y'know, clingy and needy) and I don't think I should have to! I'm not even on the list. Am I overreacting?

Ok so my hair used to be a light brown, shade, almost blonde at the ends. But for the past 4 months or so, my hair has been growing out darker. It's a super dark brown. The only thing I changed is that about 6 months ago I did one of those 30 day hair dye things and that made my hair darker.

right now, most of my hair still looks like the old light brown, but about 1/3 of it is randomly dark brown at the top. It's an abrupt change, not subtle. People ask me if I dyed my hair lighter, if that gives you an idea of how it looks. Why did it do this? Is it because of the hair dye? Nutrition? I'm a 14 year old girl

I found out today that my 14 year old daughter (high school) skipped her 4th period today. I talked to her about it, and she said that they were doing presentations and she was in the library because she hadn't finished the project. It was done entirely in class, (teachers orders - wasnt allowed to be done at home, because they didnt want the parents to help) so what was She doing while everyone else was working? She says she was working, but if she was she would have gotten it done. How should I punish her? She doesn't ever really go out with anyone after school and on the weekends. She just stays at home. She also is not involved in any clubs.