Aaron D

I met my wife from a friend of mine(her cousin) who is also a female We have been together for seven years and have 3 children, I have continued to keep in touch with her cousin, not only through family events but as a friend. My wife has recently told me she did not want me speaking with her any more and that it was disrespectful. I could not understand this as there has never been anything more than friendship with her and I, also her cousin is a lesbian and has a girlfriend that she lives with. So I understand since this is my wifes wishes what is expected of me but I am wondering if I am in the wrong or if my wife is in the wrong by suggesting this and requesting I stop speaking with her.

she has a 520 and small many small debts some credit cards banks and hospital bills. The main thing i am cocerned about is if we do work on paying the debts off there is one debt which is a judgement of $12,000 if we do work on her credit and leave this for last will it majorly effect her credit. We are looking at getting into a house as soon as possible.

any suggestions i bought a truck and it had a shaved tailgate after a few years it has started cracking and is almost half of the gate is craked off

i am having trouble with what i can do with my yard it is very small but i want to do something with it this area has power boxes and what not very close to my patio area and there doesnt seem to be anything i can do i cant build over it or near it but i would like to put something around it also it is at a slant any suggestions on either pics>?

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There are 2 vehicles one car is driving a little over the speed limit going south the other is in the turning lane leading in to the lane on a green light the light turns yellow one lane going south stops at the light the car turning proceeds to turn. The car going south hits the car totaling it resulting in the driver jumping from the driver seat through the passenger window

Who is at fault?

i am over weight by i think 80 lbs by all the health calculators

21 years old male 6 foot 1 280 pounds

i weighed 280 lbs last week i weighed myself on 3 different scales before and after they all said 280 no i weigh 255 by the end of the week is this harmful i have stopped eating as much trough out the day such as many snacks and drinks and only eat one small meal a day mostly fruits or vegetables and i am exercising 1 hour a day any suggestions.

I took my computer into the shop because it had a virus they rebooted everything the strange thing was when i went to pick it up he asked if burned dvds a lot and i said not really and he said ok here you go next thing i know it will not burn dvds when i put a blank dvd in it will not even startup or anything i have burned many home videos on dvd before i took it in if i go to properties it still says

dvd-rw device working properly

what can i do

What is your favorite all time dog i have read that at one point the american pitbull was the all american dog and at one time the golden retriever what is your opinion on the best dog of all time!

I have 2 american pitbulls and one of them is agressive towards other dogs that she is not famillar with i cant even take her for walks anymore i am to scarred what could happen. When i got her she was a puppy and it seams she was a bused she used to show agression towards us but quickly went away with love and discipline. What should i do besides see cesar millan!

My american pitbull terrier has been looking skinny latly i wanted to hear any suggestions before i take her to the vet friday. I have 2 pitbulls who eat the same amount but she is looking skinny. They only eat purina and alpo cans 2 cups each a day of purina puppy chow and 2 cans each of alpo prime slices can food this is the only food they can eat without getting the runs