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Hi guys my gf of 20 months; broke up with me on September 12th. She was 21 I’m 27. She said I was controlling, didn’t make her happy (said she had 5 happy days all year) said she can’t change me to make her happy and she’s tired of doing things just to not hurt me. Doesn’t see a future with me when she ended it with me. Around July/August she started dimming her phone lighting when around me. She claimed I wouldn’t let her hangout with friends, which was totally untrue she never even asked about hanging out with friends, she barely had any. 

She met this guy in class in July (not sure if it’s zoom class), (also I guess I wasn’t so controlling, if she had this guy and I didn’t know about him) and they are now officially dating. She says he knew all about me and respected everything and he wasn’t the reason we broke up. He had nothing to do with it. But I’m finding this hard to believe.... 

How do I get over this mess and what do I make of it? 

Hello, I have an interview tmrw in my first investment related analyst role. I don’t have any experience so I’m kinda nervous. All I have is a bachelors in economics and just started my MBA 

I’m having trouble finding good wording/answers for some questions they might ask and expect a good response to. Such as why I want to do investment banking? Do I have any work experience (I don’t)? What are my accomplishments? What are my strengths etc

Thanks for any help 

Hi everyone, 

I have a big job interview coming up soon. My first big boy job out of college. Anybody have any insight on what makes a Good investment and performance reporting analyst? What are some technical terms I should review? What are some processes they perform? Methods used etc. any advice. Thanks for all the help!

Hello, I live in a Condo. 2nd floor. And all day long for past 10-11 hours, there’s been like a water dripping sound coming from the walls. Kind of like the sound of after you flush a toilet, that sound. Combined with sounds of water dripping... it’s very odd. All day long. No wet spots anywhere. Toilets flushing like normal, sinks and showers running like normal. When I check outside on my parking lot, there’s some device that goes from the soil in the ground, connected to the pipe of the condo, also makes kind of a odd sound. Neighbors in the units haven’t complained about noises, should I be worried? What could this be? 

She’s 20, we’ve been dating for over a year. Yesterday she told me, she doesn’t like doing it and decided she wants to stop giving it. She says she views it like she’s my slave when she’s doing that and is having issues with the concep. A year later. Says the idea disgusting her. So idk how to get over it, how do we have sex again without that? 

Hi me and my gf are really scared she maybe be pregnant. She’s now 3 days late from her expected period, we had protected sex March 10th used a condom, and the condom didn’t break (we poured water into it to see if it will leak ina sink after) nothing seemed off with the condom. I did ***, but I pulled out from her before I came. It is now 14 days after that day and she hasn’t had her period yet . She checked her temp this morning and it was high. We are both scared, is there a high chance she could be pregnant? 

Me and my gf had protected sex, I used a condom and kept it on the entire time , I did pull out and finish. This was on 6 days after her period ended. Now, 9 days after we had sex she Threw up in the morning. It’s been 15 days since her period and her period is probably in 10 days. Is there a chance she’s pregnant? Are these early symptoms? 

Hi me and my GF had protected sex on Monday and her ovulation date is gonna be around Friday. It was protected I used a condom and pulled out when I felt I was about to ***. But I’m always worried about pregnancy. What are the chances she may be pregnant and how do I stop worrying about pregnancy every time we have sex?

Hello, my girlfriend is Serbian Orthodox and I’m Croatian Catholic. The topic came about where to get married and what religion to raise the kids. She is 21 and I’m 26, we love each other but we’re finding difficulty in this predicament. She is super religious, way more then me. Their religion has different dates of celebrating Christmas New Years and Easter and she said she wants our kids to be her religion and us to get married in her church, but I am having a dilemma over this. I’m not as religious as her, but I think it’s just the principle. I feel like I’m being pushed to the side, even tho she said we’d celebrate both our holidays. Idk what to do, any advice helps. 

Hello, if someone is looking to get a mortgage on a house, but all he has is a social security number, and work license, no green card. Can he get the mortgage? 

Hey! I misplaced my original certificate of citizenship, I have the copy. I need the original in order to apply for a passport so I can travel. In order to get the original copy of the certificate there’s a N565 form I have to fill out , costing 565 dollars...

Is there an another way I can get my passport?  

Hey! What are some good fun under 21 places me and my gf can go to in downtown Chicago? She bought a nice dress and we’re looking for places we can go. 

Thanks. 

my gf has a regular cycles. We had sex December 5th; I didn’t *** and we used a condom. Her ovulation according to app was December 7. She had spotting December 10. We were worried this whole time it was implantation bleeding. And now her period was supposed to happen today december 22, but hasn’t happened yet. Could she be pregnant? Please help. 

Hi, my gf and I had protected sex on December 5th, I didn’t *** at all. I couldn’t get hard enough, so we kept trying stopping and trying again; and changing condoms each time I tried putting it in, but ultimately nothing. I’m worried there was some pre-*** involved tho. Because, her ovulation was December 7th. And on December 10th she said she was experiencing spotting.... so now we are both worried. Could this be implantation bleeding or maybe ovulation bleeding?

She said she experienced spotting like this about 4-5 months ago too, but she wasn’t pregnant. We are worried.

Her next period is supposed to be around December 22.

Hi, my gf and I had protected sex on December 5th, I didn’t *** at all. I couldn’t get hard enough, so we kept trying stopping and trying again; and changing condoms each time I tried putting it in, but ultimately nothing. I’m worried there was some pre-*** involved tho. Because, her ovulation was December 7th. And on December 10th she said she was experiencing spotting.... so now we are both worried. Could this be implantation bleeding or maybe ovulation bleeding?

She said this happened to her once before 5-6 months ago when it was really cold outside, but nothing happened. 

Please help with any opinions. 

Hello, me and my gf has sex last night. Her period is gonna be tonight and we want to take a plan b pill just in case, should she do it before or after she gets her period?