Alexandra

Well we have been married 3 years we have a 1 year old son as well.

He helps with our son but when it comes to housework anyone with kids knows that they make HUGE messes. Clean something up they make a mess right then and there. LOL.

But my husband doesnt help with cleaning if I ask him its always very half butted.

His main chores- only cat litter, dishes, garbage, and take the laundry upstairs. THATS IT, and mop the floor when necessary, while I do the daily maintenance, pick up the toys, clean the kitchen, do the laundry, clean the bathrooms ect ect.

Of his duties he does each of them once every 3 days. Dishes will sit there, and I clean everything that I can, then my son wants mom time and im just so stressed. Trash never gets taken out it unless i do it- I suffer from depression anyway and am getting help for that but the stress of my husband not helping is making things very hard for me.

He stays at home too, ((we are fine financially we are both DVs)), and he claims he is helping then calls me out on a 2 gatorade bottles I had near the computer but the dishes werent done for days.

We have absolutely NO SEX at all. I stopped drinking and smoking for my son but my husband makes me want to pick it back up.

WHAT DO I DO?

Im so stressed im tired of telling him to do the right thing, but he claims he has done something but I dont see it ever done. u_u I dont want to divorce him but these 3 years have taken so much from me.

I want to be a manga artist and have been trying to make the manga for ages, but I can never do my art with the house.

Does he just not care about us? He says he does... but im not to sure anymore all the excuses...

AND to make matters worse I told him he needs to go back to work, cause its too hard cleaning up after all 3 of us with no help, and he said he is looking into college but HE ALWAYS ALWAYS PROCRASTINATES FOR 3 YEARS ITS ALWAYS PROCRASTINATING. I have to follow up with him did you call this or that? No ill do it later... Ill do it soon then he forgets.

HE is 1 yr 4 months old.

He is a good cat, really affectionate, loves to cuddle with me and my son on the sofa, when I call his name he comes running hes like a little dog! : )

But lately as of 4 days ago now, he has been acting off.

He doesnt come when I call and when we are on the sofa he doesnt come around. I barely see him around the house and has been opening up cabinets in the bathrooms and hiding in them. He NEVER EVER does this.

I took him to the vet, and we are waiting on blood tests, but everything else came back positive. : ( Im not sure what to do hes our baby and we want him to be happy but he doesnt seem it...

Hello!

I would like to dye my hair something like this:

http://www.hci4all.com/gallery/burgundy-hair-color...

My hair is previously dyed a dark red and my roots are coming in and are a light/medium brown so my intention is to just dye over all my hair.

What do I need? As in developer strength and what is the best color? Ive been looking at the IONs any suggestions my lovelies? : D

Ive had him for 3 months, (got him at 4 weeks) he is a rescue. :) Raised him and took care of him, but we have another one that is the exact same except this one is not as attached.

The one that is, sleeps on me, follows me and sits on the edge of my bathtub waiting for me, waits outside my bedroom door when im asleep, when i call his name he comes meowing and running to me. I go to the bathroom and he is there LOL.

:) (he is on my lap now haha) The other one is affectionate but he does his own thing too.

I do hope this doesnt stop I sure enjoy the extra attention :))

:) I draw clothing all the time, and i was wondering if there is a place I can send the design and have it made. I cannot sew :X ~

Im not trying to open a clothing line, just want to see some of my ideas come to life and make some nice clothes for my little man <3

Not trying to sound mean at all...here goes.

Okay so we let a friend stay during his rough times. He is not on the lease, and has been moved out since Apr 15.

He left a room full of things.

The lease ends at the end of this month, we have realtors showing the house and his room is so embarrassing. His room is so toxic i dont think i can clean it without his stuff moved out.

Dip spilled on the floor, months old mcdonalds :(

We have been trying to get him to move his crap out since he left, and he refuses unless its EXACTLY when he wants to come get it.

Ex. He was supposed to come today and it wasnt convenient for him since he parties all weekend.

we are busy all week and weekends due to constant realtors and me being pregnant. :/

I give up with trying to reason with him, he hasnt paid rent or a single thing since he left.

What can i do with his stuff legally?

(Im in San Antonio TX)

I have to get his stuff out soon. I have cleaning to do now to turn the house over.

Help please?

I am 19 weeks pregnant and still have gained no weight at all. I have a bump and all but very small and I weigh myself constantly. Im at my pre-pregnancy weight still. (112lbs)

Im worried if this is okay. I did a sugar test today as well and am 5-6 points under normal scale.

Im really not sure, should i go to the dr.?

I went in- the ultrasound clinic here did my ultrasound at 15 weeks :)

Tech said it is a boy that his weewee was clearly obviously there LOL

But i wonder if it could be wrong- because my mother with both me and my brother

I the daughter- was told i was a boy and my brother was to be a girl. (we are 6 yrs apart)

So imn wondering what the odds are that it could very well be a girl (scared to buy blue when id really need pink LOL :) )

Just curious~ my roommate owes for rent and says he will pay with his return. Which was supposed to be here in 6-8 weeks. Past that now. And now he says 8-12 weeks. Im pregnant cant take the stress but he swears up and down that its going to come in and i have yet to see it, considering i check the mail everyday.

Plus my mail went missing for 2 days, not even a page of spam thats slightly uncommon for me to not receive mail 2 days in a row...

Help me out

My father is getting married on Sept 29th however I am due Oct 25th.

I want to be there considering I just really got back in his life.

plus a half brother of mine ive never met will be there :) Id love to meet my little brother.

My husband would be driving probably, but i just dont know, I feel obligated to go for the wedding and then hit the road back home.

(Going from TX to VA).

I would assume everything would be okay right?

Can anyone help me out with some advice? Is it okay to travel?

I live in Texas and lord help me it is so hot > . <

I dont wear alot of pants since i became pregnant other than jogging pants and old army PTs LOL!

But I would still like to look cute, nothing skin tight though!

im thinking maybe almost to the knee more flowy kind, something i can wear with a very baggy long top :) and some sandals.

I just want an opinion if you think it is acceptable.

They call and call and call!

My husband recently asked for an extension they said it would be approved under the circumstances he was in and to ensure he sent that in with the extension. Well not to many days ago we got a letter from them saying that it didnt go through they shredded it ect.

Which wasnt agreed upon. So we called, this woman gave us major attitude, saying they dont have to approve us, but priorly they said they did!!! Well worst of it is,

we begged them to stop calling us and to call once-twice a month, once at payment and once after if late, not everyday 3 times or even more back to back.

She said they will not stop calling...

Even if the bills are on time, they call making it sound like we didnt pay then when they get off their *** to look then they go ok, well want to schedule next month? Which isnt due for 30 days? >:( IM SICK OF THEIR CRAP. I hate being called by MULTIPLE numbers a day by the same company. We even asked that she post on the account that we already talked to her so at least they wont call today, well that didnt happen.

IDK what brought this on. Nothing has changed in a week. My dog is about 6 months old, male polmeranian. We bathe him occassionally, and he always smells nice. Lately this last week though, just him being 3 ft away if HORRENDOUS. Im pregnant i heard that your more sensitive to smell but I also know my husband smells it pretty bad too. I love my little man but I dont have any idea how to fix this issue.

His diet is consistent.

He didnt roll in anything, we watch him when he goes to the bathroom (hes indoor dog as well) plus he bathed last night!

I guess the best way to describe his scent as is "very strong wet dog" even when dry. Its musky in my opinion but ill do anything I cannot take this much more.

I bank with USAA, and i cannot figure out where this DDA Debit charge came from.

I have not used my card on a high amount like that recently! Im worried as to what it could be.

It doesnt give any description but just a DDA Debit and the date. PLEASE HELP D:

Well, I dont have alot of money so i cant exactly donate to help sick and dying children and those in orphanages.

I am working on my novels, i will still sell them, but what i really want to do is donate my finished books to children in those areas.

Kinda share my passion with those less fortunate, especially those you like manga :)

What do you think good idea or bad?

Okay, here it goes!

Okay so I had unprotected sex 3 days after my period and right after I took my birth control off (FOR GOOD).

Then again a few days later as well as last night.

I had my period 1 1/2 weeks ago...

I went to the bathroom and BOOSH a large splosh of blood just happened (sorry nasty I know).

I cant understand why that happened, Ive been on several different birth controls and I have never had this happen.

Helppp? :O