crewchief1949

It all started September of 1987...The girl of my dreams appears our freshman year of high school...I fell madly in love with her then...I never told her I liked her, was only a friend...A friend who was always there for her in her time of need when others treated her badly or abused her...After highschool I joined the military and did many tours for Desert Storm...I came home on leave and she came to see me...She asked me before she left that night to kiss her...I couldnt do it, she was dating someone for all of 3 days...I left and lost contact with her...Fast forward to last summer...I am on facebook and a friend request from her appears...HOLY shiit...Every emotion, every feeling came flooding back to me, only this time it was so much more...Except two bad things...She still had no idea how I felt about her, even after 23 years...We got to talking and she expressed how unhappy she was in her marriage, he is abusive mentally and sexually...I was happily married...I did the right thing and tried to help her fix her marriage, as I have always done in the past I just wanted her happy...8 months go by and we still talk atleast once a week...Then one fateful day this February my wife has an affair...Says it all...We are divorced now...Just prior to my wifes affair my dream girl tells me she wants out of her marriage...So I tell her if she wants out she needs to do it the right way and see a counselor and what not...Here is where I feel like a P.O.S....I break down and tell her how I felt about her after my divorce...Now we are so unbelievably in the wrong that I am surely going to hell because we have been seeing each other for 3 almost 4 months...Not that it matters but we have not had sex, just everything else but we are still cheating none the less...Through all this I have wondered if she is just using me to feel better until one day she shows up with every present, every letter I had given or written her from high school...She tells me that she looked me up for a reason and that it was because she had always loved me but never said so either because I was happily married...Now, she is trying to get out of her marriage but he is beating her down mentally so much she feels like she wont exist without him even though every time we are together it is like we were never apart only this time with romance involved...So in your opinions are we headed for disaster or could this be true love?

My friend wants to leave her husband. He told her that if she did, he doesnt care what happens to him, but she would no longer be here. Basically kill her. Now she is afraid to go because of the kids. If she leaves and he gets visitation she is in fear that he will use the kids to get to her. OMG what do I do. I dont know how to help her.

I noticed that my vacuum actuator isnt completely locking the front dif. I can apply a slight amount of pressure with my thumb and finger and it will then completely pull the cable to fully engage the dif. I pulled the cable from the actuator and can manually pull the cable with ease to lock the dif. so I dont think the cable is the issue. I cannot find a vaccum leak either. Where does the actuator get its vaccum from? I followed the line oveer the top of the motor and it disappears behind the right head and intake. Can anyone tell me where the actuator line draws the vaccum from? Thank you. Maybe I am missing something else to you guys could tell me about.

no luck. Now we are divorced and I am unable to pay for both homes. One has to suffer and its obviously the one I am not living in. She doesnt want the other house and we cant sell it. What if anything can I do to alleviate the problem?We were having a great marriage while we had both homes and the situation developed rather quickly. I am so screwed I do not know what to do.

an affair. My wife of 12 years came to me a week ago today and told me of an affair. I am devastated. I never seen it coming. We just bought a house in the country on 10 acres and I thought everything was going great. I love her so much that I cant even begin to explain it. She was my first and I was blessed, so I thought, to have been able to marry my first. I have forgiven her, but I dont know if I can forget or trust her again. Has anyone been able to trust their spouse after something like this. I am not a quitter. Especially after 12 years, thats a long time to just throw away. If it has to be that way then I will suck it up and do it but I am trying so hard to not only understand this but be able to want this to work. Please help me.

2008 Z06 doing 206.93 mph. GM claims the more powerful ZR1 has a top speed of 205. Is it electronically limited or are they playing games with hp/performance as they did in the 60's and EARLY 70's(trans am H.D. for example)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pbqxixtt4lk&feature...

I have a 2000 S-10 Blazer that my cousin tried to hook up fog lamps to. When he ran the power wire, he hooked it to the 20 amp HVAC fuse in the fuse panel in the truck. When he shut the door it pinched the wire and ground it out. Now the heater controls dont work and the 4x4 selector switch is inoperative. I looked at the HVAC fuse he hooked it to and that is good, the HVAC fuse under the hood is good. Is there a fuseable link or a circuit breaker that has burned/tripped? If there is where would they be? Or what can you think of? Thanks

a program starts and when I click the mouse on something to open it. I updated the audio device drivers, equalizer and all other sound 'enhancements' have been put back to default.

Computer:

HP Pavilion Slimline S5212Y

Windows 7

2.5G processor

3.0G Ram

360G HD

Realtek High Definition Audio

from the substandard equipment aboard the Predator drones? This aircraft has been in service since 1995 and now it is released that simple $26 software called SkyGrabber has compromised the stealthiness of the video feeds giving them vital intelligence to our movements and what areas are under surveillence.

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2009/12/17/insurge...

Along with ALL the other government retards. Something is awfullly fishy. It is just another brick in the pile of reasons to get rid of these jokers next election cycle.

Every year we give 19 billion in foreign aid. For them to do with what they please and no strings attached. Seems to me that we should put a stipulation on that money. If that money is to be used for things such as infrastructure, food and such, they should be made to buy any of that stuff that is available here in the country that is helping them. For instance, when these countries buy new ambulances, police cars, fire trucks or general government vehicles, they should be required to buy those from GM, Ford or Chrysler, not Nissan, Toyota, Mitsubishi or Honda. I have been to many of these countries in my military career and not one uses our goods except Israelm but Israel doesnt need our money. Heavy equipment for the building of bridges, roads and such should be bought from CAT, John Deere, CASE or another U.S. manufacturer. Foods should also be bought from us. Just a simple idea that will not go through. Good idea or not?

Our black lab got into the garbage thanksgiving day. She ate almost an entire turkey carcass. She somehow got the snap on lids off the garbage cans and got the carcass. Since T-giving night she has been lethargic and not eating at all. Drinks a little water and has been holding it down finally today. She is at the vet right now. Thank god for small town vets. They closed at 7 p.m. but he has stayed to run tests on her. Its almost 10:45 and no update as of yet. I guess I don't have a real question, just needed to vent. She is our baby and I cant bare to think of losing her to something this stupid. Thanks for listening.

When people like these are saying how they look to people like Mao Tsing, Hugo Chavez and other anti democratic leaders for inspiration, does that not bother people? How can you be an American and not be appalled by these types of people advising our President? Does anyone who voted for this current government see what road this can take us down? I don't want the typical blind answers of die hard Obama supporters or the Obama haters. I want to hear from Americans who are so friggin tired of this B.S. I feel so betrayed for my military service. Its as if I was fighting for a lie. That the Constitution was a lie used to recruit people. I can't believe we are looking at socialism seriously becoming a part of our society. What say you?

Where do you go to get it.

I thought of Tom Selleck but he just doesnt have the politically incorrect maneurisms I liked with Wayne. So who do you think would make a modern day replacement for the duke?

I didnt notice until the plow ended up flipping up and over the back of the tractor and dang near landed on my head. Now the three point will not work. When I actuate the lever, I can feel the spring and plunger move but the three point will not lift. I can manually lift the arms and with the lever up the arms will fall again. So I pulled the drain plug on the pump and felt inside for any broken parts. What I found was the hydraulic pump control valve was loose. There is a ball on either end of the "T" and there appears to be sockets that the balls would fit into. Is that the case? Do I need to just insert the balls into those sockets? Or do I have bigger issues? Thanks for your time.

I didnt notice until the plow ended up flipping up and over the back of the tractor and dang near landed on my head. Now the three point will not work. When I actuate the lever, I can feel the spring and plunger move but the three point will not lift. I can manually lift the arms and with the lever up the arms will fall again. So I pulled the drain plug on the pump and felt inside for any broken parts. What I found was the hydraulic pump control valve was loose. There is a ball on either end of the "T" and there appears to be sockets that the balls would fit into. Is that the case? Do I need to just insert the balls into those sockets? Or do I have bigger issues? Thanks for your time.

The barrel markings are KDF, so I think the KD is the manufacture date May, 1959. But the F I am not sure. The Remington website says F is premier. The gun is fully engraved, checkering on fore end. The only difference I seen on mine from others, so far, is that mine has a gold and black medallion of a black lab retrieving a duck inlayed on the bottom of the pistol grip. Is this truly the Premier or a different version? Thanks

I was looking a 93 fullsize chevy W/T that has a blown 4.3L, I have a 1990 5.7L. I imagine I would need to swap the computers but I dont see why it wouldnt work. They are the same engine just with two cylinders hacked off on the 4.3. Anyone ever done this or know someone who has? Thanks

the GM Tech 2 scanner? I have one at work but I live 50 miles from work.