Yebo!

Well you see right, last year 2010 I was pregnant and sadly I lost my baby in May 2010 due to high blood pressure *sad face* the doctor then told me that I should wait for atleast a year before I could become pregnant again. Well during my pregnancy I didn't like my mother we would always argue because she always had me under pressure. So now after all of these I manage to console myself and told myself to be strong. But now my mother does not want me to become pregnant now because she feels that the people around me will think bad of me.

So now do you think I should ignore my mom and just make a baby or should I listen to her and stay sad because the thing I keep on getting the thoughts of my baby because she was a very big baby of 7months and 2 weeks and every time I get her pic in my mind and right after that I fall into depression like now I am so sad that I just feel like ending my life at some point because I always wonder why do I always want to please people and be sad at the end of the day.

What can I do to stop pleasing people and start thinking of me first?

I am 31weeks pregnant now and lately I have been so depressed that I feel as if I am about to get a stroke. The problem that I have is that I feel that my pregnancy has come at the wrong time in my life and I always wanted to have a baby. At work my bosses wife is always working on my last nerve. Whatever i do is just never good enough for her. She took away my medical aid and acussed me of saying things which I never did. I so hate this lady, whenever I see this lady I just automatically fall into a deep depression.

Secondly, I am in a financial crises. I just got paid and I thought of talking to my mom about what I want. And it seems all of the things that I want won't just work out anymore because now my mom has made some plans with my salary and..... You know what I just can't take this anymore my dear friends. This life that I am living is just killing me and God knows I so traumatised that I have a feeling that i might just loose my baby for the second time. And I don't want that for myself

If I have to loose my baby for the second time I swear the I will kill myself :-(((

Ok so its like this, I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for about 3 years now. Four years ago I had a miscarriage and just after that I started using the Nuestrate injection.

I have also been smoking for about 6 years

So now its like this my bf dislikes my smoking, secondly I have tried for a baby for the past 3 years and can't have one.Thirdly I love this man so much.But today I got the worst news of my life.

He tells me that if I don't get a baby this year he will dump me because he has made a research that smoking also contributes to the delay of making a baby.I have stopped a bit with my smoking, I only smoke 2 cig per day.Now do you think I should be mad at him or should I feel sad? Because at the moment I am devastated and sad and angry and feel a little mad and sick.

What can I do to have this baby?

I have a little bump on the left side of my Virgina and it normally pains when I bend down or tie my shoe laces, what is that bump for? Because I have had this bump for about a month now and it is stating to irritate me. Help me please!

Ok today is not my day I have had in years. Today I was in a matter of life and death.It was just few days ago that I was in need of 650.00 and the only solution that I was left with is to take the money from the petty cash at work.And to today my boss was looking for the money and I had none I then ran to my bankI had no money in my account to pay my boss and there a friend manage to help me with it.My boss does not know the truth and when he gets back I am probably going to loose my job.Or if god helps me with it I will be mad at myself for the rest of my life.

So what can I do to make thins anger and pain go away and what can I do to make my boss not become so mad at me?

I am sick and shivering to the end of my bones and I feel like fainting and this is not good for my health because I can make the chances of misscarraiges increase!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You see I am so cursed and when it comes to my love life it all just ends up this way.You see it has been over a year that I have dated this guy and now last night he hit me in my face and told me to leave his place it was at about 12 at night.I than had to just shut my mouth and wait for the sunrise.I had given all to this guy and lost all my friends and god knows I love this man.It all started when he took my fone and I asked for advice from the yahoo Q&A and they sad that I should get my fone back and I wanted to bring it forth last night and at the end this is what I got a big slap in the face.(I spoke to him in a very nice way)Should I let go or stay because he still owes me money for a pants that I bought on my account for $400.00.What can I do?need you help soon please before I just end up doing things that will hurt the people next to me PLEASE!!!!

Can one become pregnant if you haven't used the pill for one or two days?

Ok well you see that the past weekend I had gone for a field trip with some friends and with this friends there was one of the guys that I had a thing with and on this farm that we were there Me and this guy almost had sex and I have a boyfriend and now I want to know should I tell my bf about this its not that he is suspicious or anything I just feel very guilty.I love this man of mine or are somethings better left unsad???

You see its like this I have my man and he is a great person but sometimes I think that I might be the one to blame or am I wrong? Hear me out,Ok on saterday me and my guy went out to get some DVD's and had to whatch the movies but then he got so tired and fell asleep.Ok now you see on Sunday we had to finish them but then his friends came over and the they had some drinks and he never gave me attention, they drank until 10 in the evening I started to ignore him and now should I smile and act as if nothing is wrong or should I face him and tell him what he has done and mind you me I have to take the DVD's back without being whatched???...

Well I have removed 3 teeth and it is so swollen that my one eye is closed and then I still smoke.Do you think that the swelling will stop if I stop the smoke because I am also on medication for the swelling.Help!

You see it is like this I always get this time in my life that when I just burst into tears and cry I become so mad and angry to the point whereby I say things to people and rehret it at the end of the day, sometimes I don't even remember what I have said.

What can I do to stop this? Sometimes I even just go for a smoke and that is not what I really like doing to relieve my stress and this is what caused my miss carriage.And now I rather feel like I can just get something to make me high and not feel like this and worst of all is that I don't want to loose my bf...HELP!

I have this friend infact my bestfriend she is only 18 and she is very younger than me and I just think that she is the ideal frind for me.

Anyway during this past few days we did not see eachother because I was very angry at her coz of things that I heard about her and this guys that she dates.

It is like this her mom and dad don't live together and she stays with her brothers and cousins her mom is merried to another man and the father has alot of other girls almost her age.She then blames her father for what she is today,in this past time she has had about 7 guys that she had slept with and they give her money for the sevice.She brakes my heart and I don't want to see her go away with life.

What can I tell her to make her fell that she can be better then her father I love her as my one and only friend and I want to make her feel free to come and tell me if those things are bothering her again.PLEASE HELP!

It is now about 2 years that me and my boyfriend are planing to have a baby.I was in 2006 when I got a miscarriage of a 5 month old baby boy and ever since then I have tried very hard to make one again.I there a possibility that I will get a baby again, I have used the pill for the past year and have stoped using it in November 2007.So will i get a baby some day or do I still have to wait?

I have a problem with saving money and this has come to my mind that I never get anything that I can turn to and say that it cost my money and all I buy is lots of sweets that makes my room full and makes it look like a candy world.I SERIOUSLY NEED A SOLID PLAN A WAY TO MAKE MY MONEY GROW AND T SAVE FOR THE DAY MY BABY COMES!

It has been over a month now and my boyfriend has my cellphone and I hardly get time to chat with my friends and he has this dum habbit of earasing my numbers and if ithappens that I put it back he becomes mad at me and wants to threaten me by telling me that he will dump me,I know how to take care of myself it is just that I have been through alot of pain to let my man just go like that and then I rather look for advice and consider what people answer me with so please help a sister out!!!!!!!!!

Because I always believed that cracking a joke helps but now I am grown and needs to act alittle like an adult to comfort someone in pain and sympathys with them.do you agree or am i wrong??