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Who can help me out please?

I am 31weeks pregnant now and lately I have been so depressed that I feel as if I am about to get a stroke. The problem that I have is that I feel that my pregnancy has come at the wrong time in my life and I always wanted to have a baby. At work my bosses wife is always working on my last nerve. Whatever i do is just never good enough for her. She took away my medical aid and acussed me of saying things which I never did. I so hate this lady, whenever I see this lady I just automatically fall into a deep depression.

Secondly, I am in a financial crises. I just got paid and I thought of talking to my mom about what I want. And it seems all of the things that I want won't just work out anymore because now my mom has made some plans with my salary and..... You know what I just can't take this anymore my dear friends. This life that I am living is just killing me and God knows I so traumatised that I have a feeling that i might just loose my baby for the second time. And I don't want that for myself

If I have to loose my baby for the second time I swear the I will kill myself :-(((

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You are letting depression take over your life and drag you down, honey, take it from someone who has been there and done that, you know your symptoms, and you know you want to get better, show that depression that you are stronger than what it is doing to you and get help like I did, take yourself up off the ground and walk into a hospital, a clinic and tell them that you need help, just like I did, and tell your doctor like I did, and they will put you on the road to recovery.

    Do not let it ruin your life and take over your life, you are better and bigger than depression, get up, get out and get help♥

    Source(s): I have so been there and done that, and once I helped myself get help, I am such a better person for that, but you need to make the first step, it is hard, but the second, and the third and the forth, will be so much easier, and once you are on the road to recovery, you will feel like a million bucks♥You must make the first step, once you do, you will have a safety net of people to help you help yourself get better♥ You can do it♥
  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should go and speak to your doctor as it sounds like you have pre natal depression.they can advise you on the best thing to do. I hope you get things sorted. just think of the positive, that you have a gorgeous baby and nothing will beat that. x

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to see a dr hun or a councillor all the best

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