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Now does this work? I mean if some guy after talking one time (for around 40 minutes) in skype …in the second chat says “you are so beautiful & why are you so beautiful?” blah blah.. Is this still flirting?

And recently I have to go somewhere so I can’t come online for around 4 months so I can’t get him. So, he told “how can u live without talking to me? I will surely die if I can’t get to talk to you.” I know it is totally funny to take it seriously. But still is there any kind of possibility that he likes me?? I mean I kinda liked him. But I also don’t think he is serious. Again I would like to talk to him. I mean I am totally confused. He took my phone no. also. But I don’t think I can receive his phone even, in this 4 months,I will be really busy. So I’m kinda worried.

What should I do? What should I think? How should I think? Is one chat reliable for becoming serious about each other???

and is it size of breast-waist-hip??? i even don't what sizes people measure with this 3 configuration...:-/

I want to have a relation badly.And recently in a conversation with friends ( a , b) I found since now no one has ever proposed me.I’m 20 now. How shameful is that for a girl? Am I so ugly? no. Then why? My friends(both female) were laughing so much so I got so nervous & I lied to them. I told 4 names of imaginary boys names that they proposed me. But it never happened.

Then I found- from 4 names on one person I got crush myself,not that he got. But he does not know this. I will never tell him either. But the problem is I told another friend (c) about it ( the truth-I got crush on “x” ) Now “c” knows “b”… I’m afraid now if “c” and “b” talks and finds out dissimilarity in what I told them, will totally laugh at me sooo poorly. How am I gonna manage this now???

I am soooo much worried about it and I am TOTALLY SICK of myself that why I lie sometimes & why I feel like I really need a relation. I feel dying to have a relation. I don’t find anyone interested in me.But I badly want to have a relation. I think I am creating many scenes in many places of my daily life that people are also laughing may be behind me and all because I want a relation. And that is automatically shown. What can I do now?? Pleeeeease help me people…

him as brother. But he is not relative by blood.

He is going to transfer from this town so don’t know anytime in life will see again or not. So he came to see me last time & asked me for long drive I agreed on 1st asking!!! So peculiar I am!!

I even didn’t ask permission from parents.But I told mom everything on phone after I return back. Mom told you could told me & you just went on 1st asking? I’m feeling very guilty now. Am I proved as a bad girl?

My family also knows him. He is married & has a son. It was just a long drive & no touch. But am I proved as a bad girl again???

Well, I’m from a South Asian country & my fairness is black. And moreover in our country specially medical students think about fairness moreee than other universities & engineering. And also all girl & boys here do not mix freely. Some do maximum don’t.

But in our colleges guys gets interest to talk to white fairness girls.Okay I got used to it in one year much,firstly I used to get sad on it

And here facebook is the only via in which guys & girls talk. They never talk face to face in class even. Very weird I feel. But I can’t change it alone.

Anyways, so the problem is one of the most beautiful girl in our batch was my side bed-mate for 1 year so we got close.So I also observe many thing.

Well, guys here are veeery interested to talk to her & if possible relation. But she is not going into any relation.But she of course flirt with them much on fb, I mean I know it. She tells me sometimes her & some other guys convo. But ok it’s her personal matter.

But I observed when she is not online then only the guys talks to me otherwise never. I feel to be hurt thinking I’m used just as a time passing element!!! If I don’t reply to them when they say “hi” to me on fb ,then they tell I’m moody. So, I reply to them. But when she comes online they just don’t even talk to me. Isn’t that humiliation? How should I behave then? I feel very neglected. They will tell “she is not beautiful,still she moody?!!! huh” But I don’t like this. What should I do?

I know this is a very stupid post to all of you guys & I’m really really sorry for taking your time. But I wish some courage,some guide from here please. I’m again very very sorry but I am feeling really down for this reason since one year. Please help…anything

He is becoming worse & I wish to help him...pls help me...

This is little bit different case,pls help.Well...our family is a conservative family. My mom dad loves me so much & so much that they always prohibited me from mixing with others 'cause they fear I'll be kidnapped. I don't understand why they think so? I don't know who & why would somebody just kidnap me I asked them why do u think like this, but they ever say "you won't understand & you are very young,u don't know the world as much as we do.Don't talk & go to your room." But I'm 21 & still staying with my parents. I'm a girl. From India. & that's totally wrong that I don't have any idea about the world. But the difference is I start with positive thinking about anyone,besides I also keep it mind that I can't trust anyone 100% or more than that rather I just go on mixing up with others &....well I don't understand is it so necessary to decide this person is dangerous or not all the time?Then I may become mad,I guess.But my parents starts with negative thought.And I tried but they don't change because they r wiser by age. But I never think wisdom depends on age, does it???

well now... I couldn't mix with much people(girls),let alone boys. So that effected me,it grew much attraction for opposite gender.I passed my college life & there I saw many love stories,so I ever wanted a love story in my life too.But I'm always very careful.I don't have any love story up to college life for me.Then I was so busy in preparing for medical admission test.I got chance.Then I got 3 months free time before CLSS starts.Then I was so depressed for some matters but the feelings for boys,attraction was always inside me.Then I met one on net & he is younger than me & I was attracted by his cute face.(But now I don't find any cuteness in him.)I was knowing him slowly & still knowing.After 1 month chatting we promised we will never leave each other as just friend.I still think him only friend. Yes in mid time I felt many thing for him but never expressed.Now I stay in hostel & we talk over phone.But THE MAIN PROBLEM IS HE IS VERY SENSITIVE & TALKS TOO MUCH, MAY BE CONTINUOUSLY FOR 4 HRS.this was the highest time. I can't stop him. He takes 15 Min's for saying bye.I know this is crazy or some may tell he is MAD.I'm not quite sure because he talks in nice sequence,manner.He just tells me everything whatever happened someday,point to point & more than points.So,girls in my hostel makes fun of me that I'm in love with some junior.But there is nothing like that.They don't stop.It's being 3/4 weeks.The funs are disgusting to me now.But I fear to tell them anything cause then I think if they don't talk to me I'll be so lonely.Loneliness kills me from my childhood.I don't wanna be alone again.But I need to stop them.But HOW???And here my mom is not liking talking with him at all 'cause he may kidnap me.I hope nothing will happen like that.But I also want to decrease the talking.How can I do it? no idea.I don't want to hurt anyone. I want the hostel girls stop making fun of me about this(I feel disgusting),I want my mom not to worry about this & not take the matter as common gf-bf matters,I'll not escape(no idea why do they think like this),I want to decrease the taking times,hours,I want to keep good relation with everyone.Is it impossible???Any idea,any solution??Please help me,I'm feeling helpless.Please...don't let me loose myself.I can't take this much pressure.It's quite new.I've never experienced this kind of problem.Please please please help me......

Now our boarding life is over.And when I go outside now, it's without make up totally.Because I don't know how to make up actually.I know it's very ridiculous,laughable.I can't go to beauty parlour because the girls in the parlour talk very roughly & ignore me as I know nothing about make up.I don't know the NAMES even that THIS THING I want to do.I can't tell the parlour girls "I'm here for THIS or THAT"even.But all girls want to make herself beautiful.So do I.It's like I am very good at study but very bad at beauty care.I don't feel good when I feel I'm not looking good.I feel very depressed.Everyone tells me 'a black sweet girl'. But I want to hear "u look beautiful". I feel like crying.I'm the only daughter of my parents.My mom is very beautiful naturally so she never used make up.She doesn't know much about make up.My dad is black so I'm black & only sweet.Not beautiful.I'm from south-east Asia.What do I do? I don't know which cosmetics I should use.So shopkeepers also laugh.I feel horrible.I'm a medical student.And I don't know anything about make up.I feel so depressed.Could anyone help me pls? By advice or web address or anything. Please help me. I need help.